Confuse

[BrokenheartBabe]

I've being seeing this SWAT officer for over a year, it being a rollar coaster. I'm starting to think that his emotionally unavailable, his 40 years old with no kids, never being married. When we once started seeing each other everything was fine, until I ask him, were do we stand in the future, because there were other guys out there that are interested in me. His reply was "since there are other guys out there, I think that we shouldn't see each other again". After a 2 week of not talking to each other. he reappear, just to disappear for a couple of month without a trace, Now he reappear in my life, "He claim he disappear because he couldn't take verbal abuse &; he felt like I had someone else" He thought I was giving another man both sex & oral sex beside him, So he had to teach me a lesson. Everthing was going good up until a couple of days ago, Now his doesn't think we should see each other again, he feel like it isn't right, and selfish. I'm confuse by this man, should I move on? It's he playing game with my heart? or just! being vindictive? I know there isn't other woman.

[Xero]

Move on.

There is no reason to play this game.

SWAT officers, and other law enforcement people have a lot of stress to deal with on the job and in relationships. If he cannot get that down path then there will always be turmoil.

I would suggest to move on and get your life straight and not to mess up.