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Old 11-01-2009, 12:54 AM
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Smile she loves me she loves me not...what does she whant?

Okay so there is a girl i realy like and i think she likes me back but i am not too sure anymore...


Positive sighns:messing with her clothes, messing with her hair, looking at me and when i catch her she looks away realy fast, she acts more wierder around me

negative sighns: she crosses her arms when i do and she acts hard to get like paying attention to me one minute then hating me the next


Okay here is my story there is a girl at my school i am 13 and she is too and i am deeply in love with her and i think she likes me too but i am not sure anymore she stares at me alot with kinda a bored or blank look and sometimes it is a shy look, and when i catch her looking at me she looks away realy fast she also sometimes removes clothes to expse her bare arms and she walks all sexy aroud me id you know what i mean, and when her friends are not guarding her from my view she puts her hand on her cheek and like leans on it concentrating on something else when she knows i am looking at her and she flicks her hair realy fast around me and messes with her clthes around me and sometimes she mimiks my moves and my friends say they have caught her staring at me alot but whenever i cross my arms or my legs she does the same and she acts all hard to get like she flirts with me one minute then she acts like gross why are you looking at me she is a very talkitive person and very outgoing but acts shy around me and we flirt but i am not sure if she is just being frendly or likes me or hates me or whants to get to know each other.


also she sometimes spreads her legs way open and looks me in the eyes so what the heck does that mean? it sometimes freaks me out and stuff so does this girl like me or just being nice or polaying hard to get.?

Thanks for your help
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Old 11-03-2009, 12:26 PM
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Snappy: I think the reason you're getting confused messages is that you're trying to read too much meaning into her behaviors. If you know someone, you can infer information from their body language. You also have to know the context in which it occurs. Crossed arms can mean being closed off. It can also mean she's cold. Sitting with her legs apart could be an invitation, a habit, or a yeast infection. My advice is to strike up a conversation with her and see where it goes. You'll run yourself crazy if you sit around and try to interpret the meaning of every little gesture. Just take action and invite her to hang with you. Then you won't have to guess. Fortune favors the bold.
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