Help Boyfriend Thinks I'm Spoiling Him What Should I Do

[venusstar]

Hi I've been with my Boyfriend for 6 Weeks today and it's gone brilliant apart from the distance but that doesn't matter to us 2 but what I need the advice on is that through our 6 happy weeks of being together he things I'm spoiling him too much and he can't do the same back but I'm saying no what should I do as if i carry on doing what I'm doing I might loose him and he is the best thing what as ever happened to me since my last split but he means more than life itself please he is the love of my life What should I do

Thanks for your help

[YourEternalRest]

Alright, first off, calm down a little bit. From that very brief post, I imagined you as almost panicking when you were typing all that.

Secondly, you need to add more details about your situation. Why does he think you're spoiling him? Spoiling him in what way? What happened during the six weeks leading up to this made him think that way?

[venusstar]

well ive bought him a football (soccer) shirt wiv cap and chain i also got him some shaving gell what should of been shower gell but picked shave up by mistake and also a teddy and wile he came and visited me i bought him some drinks and payed f a take owt but wile i was with him i tried to do more but he wouldn't allow it but i want to do more for him but hes not letting me if you get what i mean

[Xero]

Originally Posted by venusstar

visited me i bought him some drinks and payed f a take owt but wile i was with him i tried to do more but he wouldn't allow it but i want to do more for him but hes not letting me if you get what i mean

This is where I lose track.

So you brought him some drinks, thats OK to me.

You tried to do more but he wouldn't allow it "if you get what i mean".

Are you hinting sexually or something? or just doing more things.

If its sexually then you need to stop now because its only been a few weeks. Sex can ruin a relationship right from the get go, and I think you need to reconsider if it that is what you are thinking.

If you mean do more things for him, maybe he thinks you are jumping ahead too fast. This can be true, where he might not be as ready for a relationship with you. I'm not saying he doesn't want one, he might not be usted to the change and just needs some time to get adjusted to the new life style.

Trust me a month isn't that much of time. Give it another month and a half and things will probably improve. Just remember to talk about these things with him, talking is a key part in a relationship.