Make it stop please

[bbravo0325]

About a month and a half ago me and my girlfriend got into a fight because I would always want to go out and she never wants to go any where. She lives with her parents and we were over her parents house. It eventually got to me that she never wanted to go out so I said in front of her and and her parents either we are going out or I am leaving by myself. It turned out to be I ended up leaving by myself. I use to work with her parents and her mom told me not to work with them anymore because she felt I was doing it just to do it because I had nothing else to do when I was really busting my ass helping out in their buisness. They wouldn't give me a steady pay check or nothing just pay me every so often and I didn't mind it because I was actually doing something I enjoyed. A week after her parents loose her dog and I got blamed for the lost of the dog because the dog ran outside and I went picked it up and put it inside the house but when I left the house the dog was no where to be found so I got blamed. After all this I have so much anger in me towards her parents that I even refuse to go to her house. I won't say anything unless I am told something. I use to go to my girlfriends house every day and now I don't even bother going. I just have so much anger inside of me towards her parents. Her mother is even starting to say that I hate her. I do not hate her but I just have so much anger inside of me towards them.

[YourEternalRest]

Ok, so you're not getting along with your gf's parents. Ok, so what? I'm not sure what it is that you need help with.

[bbravo0325]

I don't know if to go back to her house or what to do? My girlfriend wants for me to vist her house like I use to but I have so much anger that I don't know what to do.

[YourEternalRest]

You may want your gf to talk to her parents before you decide to go over there. I would also suggest letting the anger you have for her parents go before going over there as well. Giving it some time would also help out in this situation.

How old are you and your gf anyway?

[bbravo0325]

22 and 23...........

[YourEternalRest]

If that's the case, then I think you two can arrange other meeting places besides her parents' house.

[bbravo0325]

She wants the relationship to be like before. For me to hang out over there. And her parents ask why I don't even go over there anymore. I just have so much anger that I don't know what to do.

[Xero]

I'm not too sure what to say to you.

I think you need to at least tell her parents your sorry for your feelings even if they are wrong.

Its hard for me to think about it. What are you mad about them about? letting the dog out on accident? They must not be that mad if they still want you over there. Take a second and clear your mind and think about this more before you do anything stupid.