how to show her that im serious?

[joemomma808]

im justin and im 16
me and my ex girlfriend were talking on the phone and she asked me if i think we might get back together. i replyed with yes i think we could get back together and she said same here but if i want us to get back together i need to show her that im serious about getting back into a relationship with her. so im wondering how can i show her that im serious about it even when she lives in a different state.

[Nova]

You're gonna have to give more information about the situation. You haven't said why you two broke up in the first place. Also, how long have you been going out for? How far is the distance between you two now? What else have you talked about over the phone?

[joemomma808]

we broke up because she thought i was cheating on her but she still had feelings for me when we have been going out for about 10 months. she told me a couple times before she wanted to get back together after things work themselves out. so how can i show her im serious about getting back together with her when we dont get to see each other often, we also live on different islands so it makes it harder to see eachother.

[Nova]

There isn't going to be an easy solution to your situation but I'm sure you already knew that. You need to ask yourself if you think you'd be better off trying to maintain a long distance relationship with her or if you want to start looking for someone else. At age 16, I'm pretty sure you won't have the option to go visit her whenever you want.

[joemomma808]

ive been in one relationship after me and her broke up but it felt nothing close to what me and her had. so ive been thinking maybe thats who i should be with even though we dont get to see each other often

[Nova]

Was she your first gf? I'm guessing the answer is yes. They say that the first breakup is always the hardest to get over so it's normal for you to feel this way.

[joemomma808]

i had 2 gfs before her and all of them didnt feel like how the relationship me and her had

[Nova]

The only advice I have for you is what I've already mentioned previously. However, if you do choose to be in a long distance relationship, just make sure she feels the same way about you. It takes two people to be in a relationship and if either one of you falls out of love, the relationship has lost its intimacy.