Confused!

[Andrew]

Dear Dan and Jennifer,
this is the first time using your resource and i am glad that i havefound you guys!
I am currently finishing off my final year of high school i am 17 years old an i am having some "relationship problems"i have had a few girlfriends before although ther is this girl who i met at tutoring and speak to over MSN (chatting), she is a very nice girl although she is very confusing. She acts as if she interested although she says im a awsome "friend" yer she askd alot of sexual questions. If she finds out i spoke to a girl or am going somewhere with a girl she becomes very defensive. she laughs at things that i say which are not even funny....i try and ask her indirectly though she becomes all stuck up....i am really lost i dont want to make a fool of myself and i also dont want to be mislead. CAN YOU PLEASE HELP????????????????????????? thanks alot

[4m2r2n]

well u said u ask her indirectly how???anyway try asking her out or ask her directly

[Xero]

Ask her out in person when you are alone with her. She probably wont answer because of that. That's the best way to be upfront and personal about something. It shouldn't be done over the internet.

Being upfront and personal shows you have courage, and determination. Girls really like that. Remember the worst she can do is say no, and you probably still have to tutor her.

The signs are there, from what you say she may like you as much as you like her.

You can say "Do you think we could be more than friends?" OR "I really like you, would you like to go out on a date some time?".

Good luck, and hopefully this answers your question.

[YourEternalRest]

Girls being sexual over the internet isn't anything to be surprised about. I've talked to a number of ladies online and we've talked a lot about sex. Mainly for me it's just listening (or in this case, reading) to what they have to say since I lack experience in that topic. Just remember that women have dirty minds too.

The fact that she gets defensive when you talk about other girls definitely sounds like a hint to me. It sounds like you two talk a lot more about personal life (perhaps TOO personal based on what you're saying about her) over the net as opposed to when you are face to face. It's up to you whether you want to try to ask her out or not. But as I've stated, the signs are there.