Hard to forget

[Lovechild]

Hello ,

I'm a Belgian girl of sixteen years old and eventough I'm young I already fell in love often ... and always with a guy; I just knew it wasn't going to work.

And every time I succeeded to forget him, but now ... woosh I fell in love badly !

But he's from Portugal ... and I probably will never see him again. (Ofcourse I keep on hoping and dreaming). Eventough I realised I won't see him again I didn't really felt sad or anything I'd rather call it confused.

Untill two days ago: I was just thinking about him and suddenly I felt soooooooo happy, really happy!
From that moment I knew that I didn't need to see him like every day, but living without him, would be impossible ... I think I love him.

It's been two weeks I last saw him and I'm trying to forget him by finding another love ... and I kinda found one ... a bad one again : his the ex of my best friend

I don't really love him but there's like this great sexual tention (do you spell it like that ? ) but ofcourse he's a 'forbidden' boy ...

I'm really unhappy this way ... do you have some advice or something.

Anyway, tnQ,

Lovechild

[Dan And Jennifer]

Originally Posted by Lovechild

But he's from Portugal ... and I probably will never see him again. (Of course I keep on hoping and dreaming). Eventough I realised I won't see him again I didn't really felt sad or anything I'd rather call it confused.

First, love and lust are very easily confused. Most of what we see in the movies called "love" is actually lust.

It's important to acknowledge your own power in your life. If you know that you will not be with this person, then perhaps it's time to find someone new. That's your choice, don't let yourself be victim to circumstances.

Why is that other guy that you like forbidden? Because he is an ex of one of your friends? Sorry, we don't really agree with this. If your friend is indeed your friend, she will want to see you happy. We don't get to control the dating futures of everyone we've ever dated. LOL. Once you stop dating a person, your claims over who they can and cannot date are over.

Make a choice, and find someone new to make you happy.