Losing feelings? or me just being over worried

[pezimo]

Hi, just a small little problem which is getting to me. I met my girlfriend at work in america... we are both from uk... me from newcastle and her from liverpool. I got home 1 month earlier and she is still working over there, it has now been a month and a half since we have been together and 2-3 weeks since i have been back in the uk.

when i left we were both very very upset etc... everyday over a week we emailed, sent e cards really nice love emails etc...

we have had some small arguements, me bringup her exs in a conversation, my ex saying nasty things to us, saying LDR never work and me saying 1 month together is not that special... she was very upset with the little arguments we have had etc...

everytime i used to talk her she used to say really nice thing eg: i make her happy, she has not fely this loved for a long time etc..

but the last week or so havent been the same... we still text, phone and talk on msn each day and we enjoy it alot! she just does not say as many compliments to me or nice things eg: you make me happy etc...

im worrying that she has lost her feelings about me and that she doesnt feel the same way or is it me being being paranois and worrying too much?

i was gonna ask her but i tought i would talk and think about it first just incase she takes it in a bad way.

I have hinted saying "wheres all the compliments i used to get :P" but she went offline before i got to say that, she will get it when she signs in... i hope she doesnt take it in a nasty way.


sorry if ive kinda went on about things

all advice will be appriciated

thanks

[fawkse]

my relationship with my finace has endured the long haul of the 'ldr'. there were many times we didn't speak with eachother... months at times...
hang in there. she hasn't cut communcation and she hasn't told you that she is done with the relationship.
remember that as time goes by, we all tend to change in the way we relate to others. i wouldn't take it personal if she has stopped her flattering remarks. maybe she is just confident in your relationship, so she doesn't have the need to elaborate undieing affection.
as for being in the 'ldr', i wish you both the best of luck. my relationship is living proof that it can work. we have been together for over 5 years now. we are now settled and living under the same roof lol!
do yourself and your girlfriend a real big favor, do not EVER bring up ex's and their emotional baggage until you both are completely at ease with the idea that there was at one time another person in both of your lives.
if you are still talking with your ex, i implore you to understand that this could cause a very nasty outcome with your current girlfriend. there are boundries us women expect in most relationships. we are very jealous creatures, and having our man talking to other women really pisses us off.
your relationship with your ex will add a bad flavor to your relationship. if you can't stop communicating with her for what ever reason, at least do not seek advise from her concerning your new woman. or at least do not tell your your girlfriend everything she has to say... this is only going to hurt you all in the long run.
good luck

[pezimo]

Exellent! thank you very much! yeh i now know not to talk about any ex's at all, that was silly mistake! we are both fine now! I talked to her on phone and said that i was worried and she took no offence and said exactly what you said, she is very confident with this realationship and she loves me very much and she doe not need to send me e cards etc... as i know her feelings for me... which i do.

she has sent me 1 really nice text the other day which i liked. anyways we are good now thank you very much on the advice and for the luck. shes on cruise in bahamas! so jealous hehe!