Am I being so conservative for showing my breast on the webcam on my internet bf?

[sweetcherie]

I am 25 years old from Philippines and I do have an online bf from Usa...We just had our forth monthsary and I do feel he do cares and loves me so much...And I do love him and care for him as well..We used to have a video call on skype everyday...I watch him on the webcam while he sleep and he do the same sometimes when he have time to watch me while I sleep...Sometimes,he is joking me to show my breast since there are times that we do have this naughty talks but the only thing I love my bf is he do have a respect on me and he knows that i can`t really show my breast on the webcam...It is hard to have this relationship with someone that I havent meet in person but then we are going to meet on december...But now I know sometimes he is getting bored and I just want to put some excitement on our internet relationship...His friend even told him that I am boring cus I never send any nude pictures or videos of mine...But I just can`t do things like that...Am I being sooo conservative?But my bf told me it`s ok with him even he jokes about it he told me that I dont really have to show it cus he have a big respect on me because of that... And he rather see it on a special day...I am just worried I dont want him to feel bored in our relationship since we dont really have a physical contact and I do know that he is a guy and desire something about girls...What should I do?

[scarbowl]

I can hear the conflict in your heart on this matter. There is no reason to show your breasts to him over Skype. Wait on this. There is time. Please trust your conscience and do not display yourself.

[sweetcherie]

Well I am just thinking what his friend told about how boring I am but then I do know that my bf respect me alot and he loves me cus of being me not cus I am showing my tits on the webcam...I just got confused if I am being that conservative on not doin it..thanks for the message I really appreciate it...Godbless

[kettlekorn]

If you're worried about 'getting boring', you can spice things up in other ways than showing your breasts.

[Beagle]

SweetCheri: I have another perspective on this. When you send something over the internet, you lose control of where it goes from there. I know of a situation where a guy took the pictures his girlfriend intended to be private and posted them on a public site. It's fairly easy to record those things, so make sure you can trust him to use the images the way you want them used before you do anything of that nature.

[quest2]

Remember, and this is not to ruin anything between you just another view point. There are alot of women that are close and you and him are far away. Correct this if you can be close to one another this will slow the progression and even eliminate the want to see and have feelings for another. I agree with the other thread you can lose identity but the closest to heart is be close.

[scarbowl]

If sweetcherie is still around, I'd like to know how this situation turned out.