sex with ex's mom???

[Devin in Oregon]

i saw a question that dan and jenn read about having sex with your ex's mom. I have the same situation but a little more than that. we have had our back and forth sexual coments (just playing around) and i know if i try hard enough i can get with her but my situation is that i had a child with my ex. i have a better relationship with her mom then her. i am not looking for a relationship with the mom cause that would be wierd...duh. just sexual. the only connection with the mom is that i had her daughters child. is this wrong or is just sex.... just that??

[Beagle]

Personally, the thought of sex with your kid's granny freaks me out a little. I think a high percentage of the population would consider that "weird," as you say. However, "weird" is ultimately in the eye of the beholder and I don't claim to be in a position to judge other people's behavior. I probably wouldn't hand around with someone who was engaged in this behavior, however.

One thing you might want to think about: If this should wind up in court over a custody matter, this could get real ugly. You would at least get your personal life drug through the court. That would be my biggest concern.