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Old 08-14-2008, 12:40 AM
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Howdy my name is Colby,

My question is this :

I'm going to lost my virginity soon what should I expect out of my first experience?

Colby
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Old 08-14-2008, 04:52 PM
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Hey Colby. I just recently lost mine, I am a guy if that helps. Just some advice, take it slow, explore and most of all, have fun with it. I guess every guy is different but when I first had sex I, well, couldn't cum. So just be prepared to expect anything. Make sure your girl is comfortable and maybe ask her if she likes it once or twice in a non-demanding way. May I ask how old you are?
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Old 08-14-2008, 08:58 PM
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Hey Browneyedboy thanks for answering my question, it does help that your a guy, Sure its fine if you ask my age. I'm 18 years old. I've talked to women my age and they usually say the same thing: " You should wait as long as you can to lose your virginity." Ofcourse this is an easy thing for women to say because they can choose when and where sex happens. Anyways thanks for your advice it really helps.

Colby

P.S My real first name is Colby
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Old 08-14-2008, 10:08 PM
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I am glad I could help, if you have any other questions I will try to answer them
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Old Yesterday, 02:27 PM
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Thumbs up Take your time and be patient

Browneyedboy's answer prettymuch wraps up what i have to say.
I'm a guy, 18 and lost my virginity last year, i had the same issue he had mentioned, i couldn't cum. Over the next few times i realised that this problem no longer occured if we took our time, and instead of going straight to sex, include a lot of foreplay, for instance your girl could use her hand for a bit, take it up a step and do oral, you could do the same for her, and work your way up to the sex.

Hope that helps you out man, and good luck
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