Virgins & Sex?!

[lizzy]

is the first time supposed to be painful?
most of the people(girls) i know say there first time wasnt good, and hurt.
when does sex actually become enjoyable?

[billy g.]

yes, for women the first time and maybe even a couple after is usually fairly painful but it shouldn't be excruciating pain. as for it not being enjoyable..it still can be but sometimes isn't because the two people don't really know what they are doing (because they havn't done it before). sorry i can't be of more help but i have to get going, but i'm sure lots of people here can give you some advice.

-Bill

[K. in Cleveland]

Yes, sometimes the 1st time can be painful, or uncomfortable (pain should not really be there, but uncomfortable and somewhat "ouchy" is normal) But the key is your partner. If he gives you enough time to warm up and get lubed, there will be less irritation and less chance of discomfort. Also, he should go slowly, and allow your body to adjust to him. If it hurts, tell him.