how to be more sexy for him?

[AnputTutankh]

well my boyfriend wants me to be more sexy/sluty but im not really comfortable with my body and he gets mad that i can't just do it once. so how can i over come my fears? please help me?

[cukrik]

it is his task to compliment you and to make you comfortable with your body. Still- if you really don't want, then don't do it.

[K. in Cleveland]

Originally Posted by AnputTutankh

well my boyfriend wants me to be more sexy/sluty but im not really comfortable with my body and he gets mad that i can't just do it once. so how can i over come my fears? please help me?

Can I ask what you are not comfortable with about yourself? As a bigger woman, I can say I know how hard it is to be comfortable with one's own body. We are bombarded constantly with "Perfect 10's" in the media and if we're at all over weight, or not perfectly tanned or tall, or blemish free, then we feel we must be horrible.... That being said, believe me, there are more guys out there that are more interested in real girls than the fake beauty queens on tv. I have honestly met more men who like my fat butt and love handles and.. well... let's just say everything comes bigger..
It took me forever to want to step out of my jeans and teeshirt, even in summer. But my fiancee has helped me overcome my negative self image. He told me how beautiful I was over and over.. and the way he responded when I put on something sexy... well, lets just say I finally realized I was fine the way I am....
You need to accept yourself for yourself before you can be what he wants you to be. You need to come to terms with who you are. Our unique traits are what makes us interesting individuals. Can you imagine how boring the world would be if we were all super models?

Try dressing sexy for him once... privately of course, as going out might be a little intimidating at first. Take a lesson from the bigger-bodied black and latina women, they are not afraid to show off their curves. (No, I am not being racist, don't believe me, look around, white girls who are big tend to cover themselves up more and be more self-conscious) Try to indulge him once... see how you feel

[Wolfhowl]

Let me echo what K said so well, There are lots of guys, (like me), who like women to have a health shape, and some good curves on them then the twiggy stick figures you see in the media all the time.

I mean, really, who wants to start humping a rake!!!

But the one part of the body that makes her the sexiest is her mind, accept who you are and enjoy your self.

just start slow, and maybe ask him to do something that you really want, (kind of a tit for tat. (Where can I find a Tat to trade in?? ))

Good luck, and have fun