Oral sex (On women)

[Angelic]

After recently losing my virginity to my 'girlfriend', we decided to experiment a bit, and in doing so, I asked her if she would 'go down on me'. She agreed and now I feel like I need to return the favour. I have no problem doing it, but I'm just nervous on what I should be doing exactly. I didn't really get a 'hands on' during regular sex as she was controlling the action.
I'd just like to know what exactly I should be doing .
Any advice would help I suppose, thanks.

[Browneyedboy]

I am in the same exact situation as you are haha. I want to go down on her for her but I wouldn't know what I am doing.

[Angelic]

Originally Posted by Browneyedboy

I am in the same exact situation as you are haha. I want to go down on her for her but I wouldn't know what I am doing.

Without sounding spiteful, I'm kinda glad, at least someone feels as awkward as I do

Now, where do we start? Admittedly, I've tried before, but THAT WAS A MISTAKE, and I don't need to say how it went, because I know it was wrong.

[jeff92872]

Well there are different ways of giving oral to a women.Sounds like you guys are lucky and your girl friends know your new to this.and since you new you need to look up some karma sutra advice but most of all communicate with her when you do what she likes she will tell you

[Browneyedboy]

Originally Posted by Angelic

Without sounding spiteful, I'm kinda glad, at least someone feels as awkward as I do

Now, where do we start? Admittedly, I've tried before, but THAT WAS A MISTAKE, and I don't need to say how it went, because I know it was wrong.

See now my question is, what do you think you did that made it "wrong"? I have never been down on a girl. I used my hands on a girl but never my mouth. And I probably wouldn't have the guts to make a topic on this so I am glad you did haha.

[Angelic]

Originally Posted by Browneyedboy

See now my question is, what do you think you did that made it "wrong"? I have never been down on a girl. I used my hands on a girl but never my mouth. And I probably wouldn't have the guts to make a topic on this so I am glad you did haha.

*sigh*... I haven't even fingered her. When we first had sex, I simply used my finger to see if I could 'get it in'. Well, I 'thumbed' her :$ Anywho... I tried going down on her while she was on her period, and ...... It was kinda rushed. Anyway, bad experience, I'm gonna try again though.

[Browneyedboy]

Originally Posted by Angelic

*sigh*... I haven't even fingered her. When we first had sex, I simply used my finger to see if I could 'get it in'. Well, I 'thumbed' her :$ Anywho... I tried going down on her while she was on her period, and ...... It was kinda rushed. Anyway, bad experience, I'm gonna try again though.

It would be interesting to know how it went when you try again. We are both noobies here, we should share our experiences to help each other out.

[Angelic]

It would, I'll update you :P

[David in Stoneham]

The best way to learn is by doing. Just ask her what she likes. As you are going down on her, pay attention to her reactions. If you are doing what she likes than she will let you know. When I first tried going down on my wife, the hardest part was actually bringing up the subject. She had told me often before that she had something to ask me but she would always say she couldn't find the words. Once we were able to get past that, oral sex was "our" favorite act of love. In fact, since I am disabled, and she was overweight, it was really the only way for us. I had more enjoyment from pleasing her than I ever received myself. There was nothing better for me than to continue until she pushed me away. Experience IS the best teacher. She was my first and only love. She couldn't believe me when I told her I had NEVER done it before.