is there a such thing as wanting her too much

[eclipsewoa]

now, i tell my woman time and time again, i am very attracted to you and just the lil things she does turns me on, i mean just watching her wash dishes or just seeing her studying or watching her sleep in my arms, it all turns me on, it doesnt even have to be sexual, now i am truly in love, we are soulmates, there isnt a question about that in both our minds...

but i sometimes feel that i want her way too much, i mean i dont want her to think that all i want is sex but i havent had it be this good with someone and never had these type of emotions for someone like this and yet again she is too sexy, and her legs, oh my god, i know i have a leg fetish but her legs make me go beyond a fetish, i think im addicted to them like a drug

but what im sayin in all of this is that i dont want her to think its all lust and not love because its not, am i wrong for wanting her everyday, all day, i mean we have been together for a long time, we spend lots of time together, i mean when we are apart, all we think about is each other and when we can see each other again, and it can be like 20 minutes, please help me, i dont want to feel like im a sex addict, but its all her fault, she has it going on!!!!!!

[Emily in PA]

lol! i love your posts!

it's so cool that you really dig your wife. now whether or not that's too much, well, that's up to you guys as a couple. i know several married couples off the top of my head that lovelovelovelovelove sex and the physical about each other so much that it's a really integral part of their relationship together. as long as you don't focus on sex all of the time, you'll be okay. if you're really worried about what she's thinking, talk to her about it. and do things for her that aren't sexual, like taking her on a romantic date or just buying her flowers out of the blue and saying "i love you". or, if you can handle this one, tell her you just want to cuddle. and no matter how much she might start wanting to go further, don't. stick to your guns. it's nice because not only does it prove to her that you aren't just interested in sex, but it's a great way to explore another physical aspect of your relationship

[Dan And Jennifer]

Wow, powerful stuff - very intense feelings.

Sounds like quite an addiction. I'd say being addicted to your very sexy wife is about one of the best things you could possibly be addicted to - there's drugs, smoking, masturbation, alcohol, lots of stuff.

The real question is - does it cause you a problem? Here's a video on porn addiction - different thing at face value, but there are some similarities that apply as far addiction, so check it out...

I Like Watching Porn... What's The Big Deal?

Keep us updated, let us know how it goes!!