question for everyone that has fantasies

[eclipsewoa]

i have 10 fantasies that i havent did with my wife yet, i want some advice after u read them, tell me what u think, do u think there wierd, or too much, are they selfish fantasies, just need some advice



1. to sneak up on my wife and have sex with her while she was sleep while she is wearing one of her sexy nightgowns, without her waking up and cumming all over her( i know, freaky)

2. having sexy with my wife while another woman watching us, getting really turned on and telling me where to cum on my wife and how to have sex with her

3. watching my wife gettin oral on her by another woman, til she climaxes and then begs me to enter her

4. having sex outside with my wife while people watched but we cant see them
example( like on the hood of our car in an apartment complex parking lot
and the other neighbors watch throw there windows were we
cant see them)

5. having sex with my wife while she has on a sexy asian dress that some of the
asian women wear

6. having sex with my wife in a hot tub

7. having sex with my wife while on the highway in a van while another woman was driving with no tinted windows

8. having breast sex with my wife while she is on the phone til i cum

9. comming how to my wife and having her open the door with something sexy on and she leads me to our room and have sex all night

10. never ever being turned down for sex by my wife( even though i get it 95% of the time i want it) i want it 110% of the time i want it

and those are my 10 fantasies that i didnt have with my wife yet

[newbie3]

Have u asked your wife about doing those fantasies you mentioned yet? I think that if she really loves you she would do them. I have a few fantasies I havent done yet myself, I told my mate about them and he was excited that I asked him to fulfill them with me. I think your wife would be just as excited to know what you would like to do to her and with her.

[OverKnight]

That all of the fantasies are WITH your wife?

You'll be fine. Ask her. She might like it. If anything, you ARE being romantic and devoted with her only.

Good Luck!

OK

[Dennis in San Jose]

I recognize some of your fantasies. I don't have them myself, but they are straight out of porn flicks. Yes, I've had fantasies about having another woman involved -- in fact I did it once, with a lady I was dating and one of her coworkers.

It ended up with the three of us in bed and I had sex with the coworker while my date watched. Then my date, who was bi-curious so she set up the whole thing, and I both made love to the coworker and we slept together the night through. (Ah, it was wonderful, laying on my back with each arm around a woman and each one curled up against one of my sides.)

That was my two-woman fantasy, fulfilled.

[bigfan07]

I'm with the others that say if it's with your wife, you have a great shot at her being good with these. My hesittion is with the ones that involve others. That is going to depend on how your wife feels about the intimate relationship between the two of you. I'd feel that out carefully.

[sparkthablunt]

except for the first one theyre pretty much normal. ive done many of those things with my girlfriend. theyre a lot of fun. number one is in my opinion a little creepy and i dont kno if shed go for thst one. but the rest of em i think she wuld. i say spread thhese fantasys out over time to keep things fresh. but u shuld definitly talk to your wife. shed probably be happy your talking to her bout them. and while your at it find out her fantasys. you cant be selfish and only want to do your fantasys. and be open to hers when she tells you them. if your not and you trash em or disaprove shell most likely shut down and not do any of them. i think it will bring the both of you closer. the way i talk to my girl about fantasys is wen we being intimate or playfull. she opens up better. and if the two of you practice dirty talk your in. just talk to her man and remember, make her feel realy good about herself or it wont work.