when I don't use condoms I finish too fast!

[sapen]

In most of my previous relationships I used to use condoms. However I got engaged a few months ago, so my girlfriend and I decided not to use condoms anymore. There was when the problem began because when I don’t use condoms to have sex I finish very soon and she gets angry, so sometimes I have to use condoms to make it longer. If you can give me some advice, thanks a lot

[Dan And Jennifer]

To the first issue, the big issue here:
Does she get upset because you come too quickly, or is it because you come right away and suddenly playtime is over - even though she's still aroused and hasn't experienced her orgasm.

Be honest, this is crucial - is that accurate? That's the case in most relationships, and why most couple's sex lives spiral downhill the longer they are together.

Women do not enjoy being left unsatisfied, and the more it happens the less they look forward to having sex, until it just stops.

One very common solution is the "she comes first" approach, since women take more work to reach orgasm than most men. The idea is to make sure she has an orgasm before you do; thats a recipe for a very happy sex life.

So is there a solution to premature ejaculation, i.e. the man coming too early?

Sure, there are many. Check out these articles on premature ejaculation, controlling when you orgasm:

• A Great Way To Last Longer In Bed - That 99% Of Men Have Never Even Tried!
• Why Can’t You Last Long Enough In Bed?
• How To Use Sex Positions To Last Longer In Bed And Improve Your Performance By Up To 500%

How to please her even if you are prone to premature ejaculation?

The myth here is that the only way a man can please his wife/girlfriend is with his penis, and that is quite a myth indeed.

Watch this video, the concepts in it definitely apply:

eXtreme Sex Ed: How Can I Please With A Small Penis?

And this one:

Does Penis Size Really Matter?

Good luck! Write back here and let us know how it goes...