How can I convince my wife to allow me to perform oral sex on her?

[TobiasMobile08]

My wife refuses to allow me to perform oral sex for her, I would really like to try it, but she doesn't allow me near there. How can I convince her that it is worth it and that it will be pleasurable?

[victoria]

firstly i wonder why she refuses? have you talked to her about it? if not i suggest you do with out trying to make it seem like your trying to convince her to have oral sex with you otherwise she'll probably shut you down. that way maybe if you knew why she's refusing you could find a way to get her into it.
if it's because of a fear or a bad experience in the past i'd say take your time. phobias and bad experiences are harder to overcome than just not wanting to try it. (non sexual example: i had a bad experience with a dog once and it took years before i wasn't afraid to be around one again.)

[Jackie in Cali]

I used to have this problem with my husband (would not let him go down on me) and after we sat down and talked about it I realized that I didnt feel comfortable because I never felt completely clean enough for his mouth to be down there. It didnt even matter if I had just had a shower 10 minutes before hand. I always felt too dirty. So now if he is in the mood for oral we normally go into the shower or bath tub and I let him wash with a wash cloth before hand, which he uses as a type of foreplay as well.

My suggestion for you is to talk to her, find out why she is uncomfortable, and then go from there. Good luck.