Still a virgin, how long should I wait within a relationship before having sex?

[hughmanwho]

Well I'm actually trying to advise the girl I have a crush on (long story short: we liked each other over the summer, she moved and it became a long distance relationship and I was flying to hangout with her and "officially ask her out" when some other guy beat me to it and he went to the same college.) as to whether or not she should have sex with her boyfriend and don't feel I can be unbiased. She is still a virgin and says that she likes the guy a lot and lately he's been often asking her if she'll have sex with him. She always dreamed she'd wait till marriage or at least love and of first having sex on vacation, such as in the Caribbean. However he's been asking her a lot and has her thinking about it.

Any advice I can pass on? Still a virgin myself and would be interested in ideas as to how long to wait or tips for that first time. I know it's going to be awkward and everything but want to make sure it improves the relationship instead of screwing it up.

[Franco Italy]

Hi, i cannot understand if u r asking an advice on how to get back the girl u like who now is hangin out with another guy, or simply asking how should u do for your very first time...the advice i can give u is that u just have to wait how things goes, don't push anything i mean...anyway i dont think sex can ruin a relationship!!

[Sin Secret]

It's really all up to her and what she's feeling. If she really wants to wait for love to have sex, or at least a vacation, then that's her choice and if he's a good guy he'll respect that.
If he's been asking about sex, make sure she knows not to let him pressure her. It's completely her decision and if she feels like this isn't the time, or maybe the guy, than thats what she's chosen and he'll either respect that or he'll leave. But if he leaves her over sex after just a few weeks (or however long its been) then he probably isn't worth having sex with to begin with.

I didn't really wait to have sex, and I don't exactly regret it, but I do regret my choice of guys. But with my current boyfriend, we only waited a number of days before having sex for the first time
It's really a situation based decision, but she has to know that it's okay to take her time and decide for her self. He'll either understand or he isn't worth her first time.

Good luck.
<3
Sin

[rob]

From what it sounds like, she loves him but he wants sex, not love-that's just my initial impression. 'he's been asking a lot lately' = he wants sex and doesn't appear to be too concerned about the relationship. It sounds hackneyed.
And advice on 'getting the girl'-just tell her how you feel.

[hughmanwho]

Thank you everyone! Good advice.. the problem is that it would be long distance and I don't think either of us really want that.. so she knows how I feel but wants to stay friends and not have a relationship, if somehow we move closer or I become a millionaire, maybe someday.. but whatever and I'm ok with that, just surprised me and I wasn't sure how to react upon writing this because everything she'd been saying up to that point was that she wanted to wait until marriage.

[FemaleOrgasm]

Women are turned on by high status men and one of communicating high status is telling her (in a NON-sleezy way) that you are a master of female orgasms.

I know that's not true right now, but you can become a "theory" expert first.

Master these 3 orgasms: A spot, C spot, G spot.

The A spot is 3-4 inches on the front of the vagina. You make it cum by trying to scoop it out with your middle finger.

The C spot is the clitoris and you make it cum by lightly stroking it at the 1-oclock position.

The G spot is 1-2 inches on the front wall of the vagina and you make it cum by vigorously trying to scoop it out with your index & middle fingers.

Use plenty of grapeseed as a lubricant and RELAX her completely by massaging out the knots in her back and neck because ABSENCE of fear and anxiety is absolutely essential for female orgasms.

You use your fingers FIRST to TRAIN HER VAGINA so she becomes FAMILIAR with the feeling of orgasms, so when you use your penis, she will cum very quickly.

Explain all this to here as if it were "regular conversation". She will perceive you as high status and will become magnetically attracted to you.