I'm suffering from a lac of orgasm can you help?

[Mystique from Windsor]

Hello Dan and Jen, well as my topic of the tread states I am having a bit of a dilemma, I am 18 and still a virgin, but no matter what I do I cannot reach my climax point, I use vibs and everything yet still nothing happens, I mean I am in the mood and all and I masterbait for quite a while and still I cannot seem to get to the point where I "cum", I am starting to feel as if that myth of "Chicks do not have orgasms, they fake it" is starting to apply to me, and I feel as if I am a dysfunctional fireworks display where you see the trail of the firework but no explosion, if you will, is there. Is there anything I can do? Am I stuck in this area of disappointment for the rest of my life?

Well thank you for reading my question Dan and Jenn.

Mystique from Windsor

P.S. I do not know if this will help but I do take Celexa for Anxiety and Depression.

[FemaleOrgasm]

Absence of fear and anxiety is essential for the female orgasm. Other studies have found an absence of activity in the brain during orgasm.

In other words, you have to relax and let go. Give yourself permission to cum.

And then, while using your vibrator, use this technique:

3 points of attention:

Focus on the crown of your head (this also causes relaxation)
Focus on the tip of your nose
Focus on taking deep breathes in and out (this also causes relaxation)

Focusing on 3 points of attention turns off negative self-talk, fear anxiety and clears the mind.

Also play some baroque music in the background to increase your relaxation. Maybe even some candles and aromatherapy as well.

Also avoid foods that increase anxiety eg sugar, junk food, processed food and "energy" drinks. Stick to fresh organic food and pure water.

And stop taking prescription drugs because they cause anxiety & depression. Use natural cures instead such as direct sunlight and exercise.