Can't get over the edge. Never had an orgasm.

[robnjen]

My husband and I have great sex now, but I have still never had an orgasm. He does everything I ask him to do, and I feel like I am so close. The tension just builds and builds until I can not stand it anymore, I want to scream, and sometimes do, but I can not finish. We have tried everything I can think of. I know I have to be so close, because I can not stand it to be any more intense, but I don't know what to do at that point. Sometimes it feels like I have to pee. I have tried just relaxing, I have even tried pushing the pee out. I don't know what to do at that point. Since I have never had one, I don't know what it is supposed to feel like, or what else to. Please help.

[FemaleOrgasm]

Tell your husband to spoon you and then put his index and middle fingers into your vagina. Tell him to rapidly "pump" your G spot. Your G spot is 1-2 inches (half a finger) on the front wall of the vagina. The rapid pumping will cause your G spot to fill with female ejaculate. You will think you need to pee. Just push it out. When you cum, your vagina will contract around his fingers, push them out and then you'll squirt everywhere.

Tell him to massage out all the knots (little lumps of trapped stress) in your back and neck for 30 minutes to make this techniques extremely effective. Relaxation is absolutely essential for female orgasms and that's the massaging does.