she is kindof odd when it comes to oral...

[TJfromChy-town]

shes kinda weird when it comes to oral... she loves to get it, and she loves to give it, and shes even read different tips and stuff to make it more pleasurable for me, as i have for her. she likes to swallow when i DO ejaculate orally(which is a HUGE turn on for me... but it doesnt happen that often at all because she never does it long enough...), but she doesnt go down on me nearly as often as i do for her, and its never as long as i do. it never lasts long enough for me to come.. she usually only does it to get me going then we move on to intercourse, and sometimes shell go down to clean up after i orgasm...

what i would like to know is if there is any way for me to get her to stay down there a little bit longer until i do finish? or something i could suggest to make it better so i can come faster? as i said its a huge turn on for both of us when she does swallow, but she just cant seem to do it long enough...

any feedback will be greatly appreciated

[FemaleOrgasm]

TELL her to go down on you. Say it calmly and like you expect it to happen. Then tell her to suck your corona (the rim of the head of penis) CONTINUOUSLY to make you cum faster. Tell her not to bother with the shaft or anything else.

When women are SEXUALLY AROUSED, they like to be told what to do IN THE BEDROOM.

Read the previous paragraph 2 more times so it sinks in and then DO IT.

I didn't say to tell her what to do OUT of the bedroom. I'm talking about IN the bedroom.

[TJfromChy-town]

thanks for the advice, but she likes to deep throat so i dont know... i guess i should count my blessings but i just wish she could get me off more often orally... one more thing i wanted to know, when she does go down on me, she cant seem to do it on her knees. wether im sitting or standing she just cant physically do it. she likes to do it either sitting next to me, lying on top of me, or standing over me. and another thing i wanted to know was is there any way i can get her to 69 more often? i like it that way cause its more of an even trade off... thanks

[scarbowl]

Originally Posted by FemaleOrgasm

When women are SEXUALLY AROUSED, they like to be told what to do IN THE BEDROOM.

I'd like to suggest here that not all women like to be told what to do - sexually aroused or not. His partner may not appreciate this approach. I'd suggest trying it with caution.

[TJfromChy-town]

thanks scar.. my main issue with the whole oral thing is just that she very seldomly does it until i come. and another thing is the positioning. i would like it more if she could do it on her knees facing me or if she would 69 with me more often because i like that the most...

[FemaleOrgasm]

Originally Posted by scarbowl

I'd like to suggest here that not all women like to be told what to do - sexually aroused or not. His partner may not appreciate this approach. I'd suggest trying it with caution.

To be a man you must take the lead and risk being rejected. Learn from someone who is EXPERIENCED.

[FemaleOrgasm]

Originally Posted by TJfromChy-town

thanks scar.. my main issue with the whole oral thing is just that she very seldomly does it until i come. and another thing is the positioning. i would like it more if she could do it on her knees facing me or if she would 69 with me more often because i like that the most...

To ease the pressure on her knees or get her to sit on a small foot rest or a small table in front of you. If shes on a small table but her mouth is too high then put a pillow under your butt to make you higher. You can also get her to sit in a regular chair and you stand up.

To get her to 69, start off with her doing you so her head is at your penis and her feet are by your head. She'll lying down by your side. You'll be doing "top and tail". Then slowly transition into 69. Make sure she's naked first so the transition is easy.

When you 69, give her a "clit blowjob". Suck her clit as if you were sucking her nipple.