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Old 02-03-2009, 06:32 PM
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Exclamation I need help.. it's an emergency. please !

Well, let's say I and my girfriend had some fun around her vagina .. like, I took my penis there and we just played around, I felt it entered but just a bit. she told she didn't feel anything.

the question, may it be dangerous ? like, Can the lube created by my penis make her preganat if We didn't even have .. never, we're virgin, and it was the first time we played.

will it be needed to take a pill or a medicine just to prevent an unwanted pregnacy ?

hope you answer me as usual, I won't be out of the woods untill I know if I can relax.

bye bye, thanks in advance .
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Old 02-03-2009, 06:50 PM
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Pierre: I'm not sure what you man by "lube" from your penis. If fluid other than urine came out of your penis, it contains sperm. Contrary to popular belief, the white material in semen is not sperm. The clear portion contains sperm also. Men don't generate "lube" like women do.

If you just inserted your penis slightly without ejaculating, the chances of pregnancy are very slim. (But not zero.) It sounds like you ejaculated (came) and if that happened she may need to consider emergency contraception such as Plan B.

Emergency contraception: The FDA and Plan B OTC
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Old 02-03-2009, 06:56 PM
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I didn't ejaculate.. there was no cum... my penis and her vagina got 'wet' you know.

and I'm not sure I inserted, but she's virgin and she's got the himem anyway, it was not broken.

we were just wet and playing around her vagina.

what are your adivice ? taking an emergency pill or just relax ?
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Old 02-03-2009, 07:00 PM
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Then the fluid was from her vagina. Men don't produce lube.

If you didn't ejaculate (come) at all, there's very little to worry about.

I know what it's like to be young and get carried away. Next time, take a condom. Then you won't have this knot in your belly like you do right now.
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Old 02-03-2009, 07:03 PM
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well... men don't produce fluid ?

what's is that liquid/fluid which cames from my penis when I masturbate and makes it wet ?

I wet my underclothes a lot when I'm in hot moments...

even if I'm alone masturbating, my penis gets wet.... can this fluid which makes it wet causa a pregnancy ? :S
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Old 02-04-2009, 08:24 AM
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Alan: I said men don't produce "Lube". Semen is basically a protein that enables the sperm to survive the trip up the vagina. What you're undoubtedly referring to is "pre cum", where a man releases small amounts of semen before ejaculation. it does contain sperm and can therefore cause pregnancy. That's why withdrawal isn't a viable birth-control option.

You're finding out things most people don't know. Go to Wikipedia and search "Semen." It actually has a lot of scientifically accurate information.

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Old 02-04-2009, 10:00 AM
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hmm, I understood.
I gave her a pill and I'm feeling better now.
I bought a lot of condoms as well, better safe than sorry

I'm glad you answered me and helped me solve it.

thanks so much.
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Old 02-04-2009, 01:48 PM
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You're welcome. FYI, they have a name for guys who fool around and don't use protection- "Daddy"
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Old 02-05-2009, 04:47 AM
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Cool

I'm not one of those guys.. LOL

I bought condoms xD

I just didn't have it as it was the first time, but as I'm sure it's gonna take off and get hot, I bought and kept it inside my car, walet, bedroom...

now we can have fun easily *-*

we're waiting for her period, how long does it take to happen after she takes the pill ? at least here where I live there's a pill women take the next day of the unprotected sex. does it exist in America too ?


bye, hugs.
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Old 02-05-2009, 08:23 AM
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Yes. It's marked under the trade name "Plan B."

FYI, don't carry your condom in your wallet if you carry your wallet in your hip pocket. The weight can damage the condom.
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