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Old 06-01-2008, 07:04 PM
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Question Boned In The Booty By My Wife - Does This Make Me A Little Girly Man?

Dear D&J, I really like it when my wife does me with a strap-on (she likes it too). It feels really good - intense orgasms. I don't think I am gay. I think I would rather kiss a monkey than kiss another guy.
1) I don't feel gay, or bi, but I really like getting boned in the booty by my wife - does this make me a little girly man?
2) Am I really gay but somehow just don't realize it? Is that even possible?
3) Any suggestions on how to make it feel even better?
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Old 06-04-2008, 12:06 PM
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Being gay isn't about the sexual acts you participate in; it's about your desire to participate in those acts with someone of your own gender.

So, unless you wish your wife was really a man; or you think you would enjoy having a man do the same things to you that your wife does (or you fantasize about such a scenario), then no, you're not gay or bi.

As to how to make it feel even better, I bet if you stopped worrying so much that it somehow means you must be gay, that would help a lot.
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Old 06-04-2008, 04:52 PM
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Anal play is great! I suggest you read this post on my site:
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Have fun with it!
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Old 06-08-2008, 01:41 AM
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As long as that isn't the only sexual act you perform then i don't think you've got anything to worry about being gay or bi.

A reason for liking this is that the prostate(the man's G-spot) is situated 2-3 inches up the anus and thus sexually stimulates.

Bottom line is, if you both enjoy it, why change?
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Old 06-10-2008, 09:01 PM
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Getting "boned in the booty" by your wife makes you a little girly man only if you want it to. Stop worrying about the labels and continue enjoying the sex.
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Old 06-10-2008, 09:58 PM
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No this does not make you gay or bi. You are not attracted to men, hence you are not gay or bi. If it feels good and you both enjoy it - have fun. :-) As for how to make it feel better...

1. Try different lubes - textures and aromas
2. Try different shaped and sizes of strap ons
3. Try a vibrator, anal beads, butt plugs, etc.
4. If you' (and your wife) are open to the idea - add another girl ;-)
5. What about letting your wife tie you up - the whole submission angle?

And most of all... relax and enjoy the ride. ;-)
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