Sex Problems

[Elwood]

My penis is 14 inches long. Girls are afraid to sleep with me because its so big. sometimes when i pull it out when im about to get into the act they leave. we always make jokes about it calling it monty python but when it comes down to it what are some things i can say to the girls so they wouldnt be afraid.

Elijah
West Palm Beach FL.

[Melody Brooke]

How safe a woman feels with you, who you are, should make the biggest difference. If she has had experience with someone who is large and deliberately pushed his hard penis into her in a hard thrusting fashion she may be fearful of YOU doing that, because that can be very painful. Being gentle and loving and showing her that you won't hurt her with your strong arms, hands will go a long way to making her feel safe. Show her gentleness in your lovemaking touch, and when you enter her gently, slowly and not forcefully she'll know you want it to be good and not painful. Of course, asking her how it feels as you are moving into her gives her permission to let you know if it does start to be a problem. Open communication is the best way for her to feel safe. If you are having sex with someone without connections and communication beforehand, little can be done to help her feel safe.

[Dan And Jennifer]

I couldn't agree more. Spending the extra time up front to make her feel safe and comfortable will go a long way... You could also try a few lovemaking sessions where you only focus on pleasing her to let her know that you're not "all about the d*ck". You care about her feelings and desires. So many men think that their penis is the only way to please a woman. This is normally an issue for men with an extremely small penis, but it goes both ways...

Make sure when you do penetrate her, to ask her (like Melody said) how it's feeling and let her know that it's OK to tell you if it hurts.

Here's a video we did on this recently:

[davemalt24]

for starters you dont know how to measure or simply are a fake...
no one on the planet has 14 inches and quite frankly no woman can fit 14 inches deep inside her... 14 inches would bring the penis into the lungs in depth simply impossible... and those who say that women can give childbirth therefore women can accomadate any size... thats not true...
Some women have died from child birth some tear the skin that sperates the anus and vaginal opening... therefore anything from 3-7 inches is just fine.. smaller will be a probleme when it comes to penetration, and longer simply hurts