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Old 06-17-2008, 09:09 AM
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when i plesure my girlfriend with my fingers i sometimes flick/rub her clitorus and it sends her wild but she says she has neer had an orgasm when i do rub her clit she says it really tickles and when i go fast she trys to get me to stop and she laughs alot

should i stop rubbing when she does this or should i carry on trying to give her an orgasm ?

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Old 06-17-2008, 10:21 AM
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As a woman, it seems that guys tend to want to switch things up a bit just as they're starting to feel good.. ;-)

If it's tickling her so much that she can't enjoy it, back off, slow down just a bit, and be more gentle. It sounds like you may be moving a little too fast and a little too hard. She needs to trust you and relax to allow you to give her a orgasm.

Follow her lead. If she's not telling you to stop, she's moaning a little, or moving with your hand, then keep doing what you're doing. If she starts giggling, back off just a little.

Try that approach and see how it goes...

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