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Old 06-11-2009, 10:29 PM
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Me and my boyfriend of three years have been hearing a lot of stories from his buddies that their girls are having squirting orgasms. And we have been trying but now i'm starting to think that i can't. i have so many questions about it. Is it possible to have a squirting orgasm? and are there any tips that you can give that will help with reaching that point?thank you
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Old 06-12-2009, 01:41 AM
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I know a girl who can squirt in about a minute and it sqirts about 3 feet. It's not urine. she rubs her G spot.
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Old 06-12-2009, 08:29 AM
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You are going to have to find the G spot. It's a rough patch of skin in the vagina.

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Old 06-12-2009, 11:06 AM
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I've met a guy who claims that he can make any girl squirt (and have seen proof )...

I'm not exactly sure about the technical details but it does involve exciting the g-spot in such a way that causes the gland to forcefully excrete fluid. There's a lot of controversy about what's really in this fluid but it seems to be a combination of vaginal fluid and sometime urine.

This may sound disgusting, but it really is a physical manipulation of the gland that causes you to squirt. It's not the same as an orgasm. While is it possible that some girls can do this in combination with an orgasm, it's possible to squirt without actually having an orgasm.

Don't get frustrated if you're not able to do this! Sex is about your pleasure individually and as a couple - not how far (or if) you can squirt...
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My girl friend has them all of the time. The key is hitting the g-spot and clitoral stimulation also helps. It helps if he stops when you are about to orgasm and then he gets back at it again. I dont know why but it always works for us.
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Tell your boyfriend to massage out the knots in your back and neck. This will relax you and allow you to enter "theta state" - A brain state when orgasm occurs.
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Old 06-13-2009, 08:27 PM
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I've been making my girlfriend squirt for months now and let me just say this. Yes it can be done and for me it's a massive turn on. People have touched upon the subject in here, but I will try to go into a bit more detail on it.

Do whatever you know makes you feel good. If you love oral, get him to do oral. If you like it when he uses his fingers, do that. It's essential to be turned on, I mean really turned on.

Now I've never been able to make my girlfriend squirt during sex, however I have been very successful when fingering. The main thing you have to do is stimulate the G-spot. This can be found by inserting your fingers to about the second knuckle and curing your fingers upwards to the roof. You can stimulate that in many ways by rubbing it, tapping it or using techniques like twiddling your fingers back and forth.

When I first did this, it had to be done a lot before I got to see the results. But here is the technique I usually use. Quick finering with 2 fingers can make a girl squirt, but to really get her going, (if you're able to) change to 3 fingers. The change in gurth (or however it's spelt) really makes a huge difference. I mean huge.

Obviously this will vary from person to person but this has been working for me for months now and I have to say, I've never tired of doing this So I hope you can achieve what you're trying to do! Good luck!
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