Can't stop thinking about sex

[Dan And Jennifer]

OK, breather all around. Please end this thread - I am not closing it (yet), but please don't reply further.

Let's all take a few deep breaths and walk away.

This conversation has escalated well past the point where it can be in any way helpful / positive; at this point the only thing happening is attacks and jabs.

I would like to remind everyone about the forum rules on any types of personal attacks. "If you can't say something nice", etc. Doesn't matter who started it, it takes 2+ to fight, so let's try hard to not.

Now, let's channel all that great energy into doing good, positive things and helping people. :-)

Have a great evening guys.

Thanks,
Dan

[YourEternalRest]

Now that Dan has stepped in, can I get some help regarding my situation or do I have to worry about another argument resulting from it?

[theresa]

I see if anything you are a freudist which didn't mean to literally follow him in all aspects including the cocaine addiction,but do your thing man it don't matter.ive gotten multiple letters from many moderators who are just astounded you actually think you are convincing as a professional in any way,really your argument isn't with me per se,I'm just verbalizing what they feel they cannot in the position they are in,however I am not afraid of a child your age so I can stand here and face you down with no fear of you being close enough to hit me with your teddy bear bookbag.my sexual health is very solid and happy,the size of my clitoris is no indication of masculine traits since it is natural and not testosterone derived.I am an equal in my relationship and my practice is sound and professional,I'd offer you a discount since you need counseling but I've never offered service to adolescents and wouldn't know the first thing about how to help you,may I recommend a good veterinarian?there's a saying harry better to let people think you are an idiot than to open your mouth and remove all doubt.............you've removed all doubt so much your insecurities are showing harry......I think someone needs to talk to your parents and tell them the computer is taking away from your homework and chores for your own good.....keep going harry this is like rabbit hunting

[FemaleOrgasm]

Originally Posted by YourEternalRest

Now that Dan has stepped in, can I get some help regarding my situation or do I have to worry about another argument resulting from it?

Getting sex is easy. Just get drunk and lower your standards. The good thing about that is that you accumulate sexual experience. You find out exactly what you like and what you don't like extremely quickly. The bad thing is that it's easy to regret what you did the night before. Getting sex with high quality women (ie hot, smart and nice) takes inner game (high self esteem) and outer game (technique). When you're inexperienced, it's even harder. Do you want sex or sex + relationship or something else? What kind of solution are you looking for?

[Dan And Jennifer]

Hey all...

This forum is intended to be a place to discuss all topic in an open and friendly manner. So STOP IT ALREADY.

We are all free to express our own opinions and views without being attacked by another member of this forum. We need to feel safe in who we are and what we believe. There is enough ego and judgment, right and wrong, etc. in the rest of the world. This is not the place for that...

Here's a positive suggestion: Keep your views and opinions about "YOU" and not about another person. A good rule that Dan and I use when we disagree on a topic is to never start a sentence with the word "You". As a matter of fact when debating a topic, try not to use the word "you" at all. Go back and edit your post to remove every instance of the word you. Keep your posts about the topic at hand.

Play nice!

--jennifer

[jada]

I gues this is right suggestion. We have to respect opinions of each other cause tastes differ even in the matters of sex. So as for the "can't stop thinking of sex" i can add it's quite normal and isn't a deviation or smth like this. Love each other as often as you like to do it.

[Don in NYC]

wow. you are like 200% normal! Don't sweat the technique. BUt maybe layoff the porn... it can be pretty addictive

[fonejacker]

im guessing you masterbait alot and im not saying thats a bad thing i used to go through a faze of alot but i found if you try to hold in and not for periods of time you just naturally stop thinking of sex maby start by doing it once a day then maby evry second day, for me if i have a wank like half an hour later ill be more thinking about more sex than i was before it. try it out and see if it might help

[sexjourneycouple]

To offer some practical advice beyond the fact that this is normal, Ive discovered PC muscle exercises are a way to control erection. While I haven't mastered this skill 100% myself I think it is worth learning for those moments when your in public and you need to bring your erection down.

There is a lot of material out there describing how to find it and exercise it though It is a tough task at first. My recomendation from expereince is once you have located it to only practice once you have an erection. If you at home alone you'll probably find it wont take long for your erection to come back and then you'll probably need to spank the monkey, pat the dophin (ie masturbate). But once you've mastered the skill it will be usefull in public.

As for the thinking about sex all the time the only thing I know of for controling our thoughts is meditation. I find the best way to spend 5 mins a day just taking time out to focus on my breathing.

The PC muscle stuff will also help you when you actually have sex apparently I just havent figured out how yet!

[Best Advisor]

Seriously, i have many friends who r ruining their life watching porn a lot. The more they watch, the more they think about sex, etc, like u described. set goals if that helps. and this may be normal to some people, but according to my personal experience, porn is gonna make u want more and more sex, and u will like physical attraction so much that u will forget about all the other important things u need to know that matter in a partner. and if u r really physically attracted to someone, u might mistake it with love. and im not saying dont be physically attracted. im saying, make wise decisions.