Can't stop thinking about sex

[Nova]

It was a year ago this month when I had sex for the first time. That was the only time I've ever had sex in my life so far. It was with a girl I've never met before and haven't seen since that day. Chances are, I may not see her again. But I'm not saying I'm trying to find her to have sex with her again.

My problem is, for the past three months or so, I can't stop thinking women/sex. I don't know if this is something that's supposed to be considered normal or not, but it bothers me for a few reasons. I haven't been able to focus as much as I should on the more important things (every day life, work, school, etc), I've been watching a lot more porn over the past few months, and overall it's just something that tends to stick in my mind for a while. Although I'm able to forget it, it doesn't take very long for me to start thinking about sex again. This is pretty annoying because I would get erections while I'm in class or at work.

What is the solution to this? Am I showing desperate signs that I want/need to get laid?

[Xero]

It's completely normal, I get erections all the time and thing about sex all the time as well. It's normal for a male your age to think about that, and it's normal for all males any age. My friend had sex for the first time about a year ago and has not stopped since then. He got a new girlfriend and turned her into a nympho just like him.

It's completely normal to get erections, and to look at porn. Erections show that you are a healthy male. I usually can sit at work or stand/walk around and it just randomly comes to me that I want to have sex, or just have an erection in school. I am still a virgin but yes the urge does come lol.

You probably do want to get laid, (who doesn't?) and a solution to your problem would be sex, or masturbation.

[Beagle]

As usual, Xero is right on target. You're showing all the signs of being a healthy young male. Count your blessings and pray it lasts. It won't, though. Most men's testosterone starts to decline after their early 20's and their sex drive has reduced by the time they're in their late thirties.

Masturbation is the natural way to manage these feelings. Later, when you find a partner, it will turn to intercourse. You'll know when that time is here. Just let your body do what it's made to do.

[Nova]

Haha Beagle, I can say that your age range does not apply to me. Right now I'm a male in his mid-20s (26 if you want to the exact number) and I've not had urges anywhere near this strong when I was a teen or when I was in my early 20s. I'd have to say the whole thing didn't even start for me until I was 24 or 25 so you can see it's been somewhat recent. I can't tell you why I didn't get these urges as a teen or when I was in my early 20s but they're sure as hell here now.

Thanks for your responses, both of you. I'm sure I'll think of more to add later on.

[theresa]

the average man thinks about sex every seven seconds....i hardly think all of them are just having sex for the first time,and ill bet that this is about the frequency you are having it happen to you.its completely normal and reasonable.....and its not just men having these thoughts.........enjoy it because it is here to stay.......in fact sexual daydreaming can be a great way to pass time.....like long trips.....a tedious day at work......a boring meeting......church.....ok i was just joking about church(or was i)

[FemaleOrgasm]

Have regular sex and then focus on other areas of your life.

[slittylicker]

I think about sex too.
you're normal or we're both abnormal. LOL
No, it's normal for a guy.

[Nova]

Originally Posted by FemaleOrgasm

Have regular sex and then focus on other areas of your life.

You make it sound so easy, don't you? If I actually had a sex partner, I don't think I would've written what I said previously as a problem.

[theresa]

dear abby my pit bull ate my child,im so surprised,i told him after he ate the first 3 he was a bad dog.....should i trust he wont do it again?

response from you know who........

put hamburger in your other childrens pockets...the dog will only focus on the pants

[FemaleOrgasm]

Originally Posted by theresa

dear abby my pit bull ate my child,im so surprised,i told him after he ate the first 3 he was a bad dog.....should i trust he wont do it again?

response from you know who........

put hamburger in your other childrens pockets...the dog will only focus on the pants

Would you explain what you're saying?