Help? Advice? Suggestions? Tips? Tricks? I need some help asap please and thank you =]

[xPlayBoyBunnyx]

Ok so me and my boyfriend seem to be having 'problems' lately. Hes an ex of mine and we got back together. Soon after i decided i wanted to have sex with him. We did it and it was great. foreplay, oral everything. We even did it all over again ;] But now every time we try after there seems to be 'trouble' of some sort. We do foreplay. oral [69] and all but when it comes time He cant get it in or something. He said something about being nervous that it wouldn't be good as the first time or just being nervous around me in general. I'm not sure... so I was thinking of spicing things up a little bit. Thinking of getting some stuff from spencers or something and having some fun =] Since I've never tried any of this stuff before I was looking for some suggestions. Any other suggestions or advice whether it be something from spencers or not would be greatly appreciated too

I wanna know like what guys like what feels really amazing im not sure what he likes exactly and i would ask him but i wanna surprise him.

[Beagle]

How long has this difficulty been going on? If it's a fairly short time, then I would expect it's just nervousness, like he says. You and he can help that by creating a very relaxed sexual atmosphere, backrubs, low pressure, etc. If it continues more than a couple of weeks, he may be dealing with ED (Erectile Dysfunction) and needs to see a doctor.

If it's a problem when he masturbates, then it's almost certainly ED. I know he isn't likely to share that information with you. Perhaps you can share the information with him, however.

[Nova]

Check out the other forums on this board. I would suggest starting out with the BDSM forum as that one contains a lot of sex ideas. If you're gonna head to Spencer's you shouldn't have too much trouble with trying to pick something out. They usually have a lot of kinky materials for sale.

Just out of curiosity, how old are you and your bf?