Newbie at oral, and am I being easy?

[Amber_eyes]

Okay, this is a sort of a weird question(s). I've been dating this guy for a little over a month, and about a week ago I gave him oral for the first time, and have done it a couple of times since. I really enjoyed doing it, and from what he was saying, I'm pretty sure he does too.

What I''m wondering is, because we haven't been going out long, does this make me seem easy/slutty to him/or other people? Mind you, he is the first guy I've ever done this too, and he knows this. And can I get some tips on giving really great head? Once again I'm still new at this, so I would appreciate some help, and a little reasurence that I'm not being a slut.

[Sin Secret]

Hey there.

I'm in a hurry, but I thought I'd go ahead and drop you a quick short answer.

In a way, giving a guy head a little too willingly can be seen as slutty. Not by me, but by the general society. It's one of those stupid stereotypes.

In my opinion, a couple things you can try is to A) make sure he's earning your sexual attentions. If you're just blowing him at any drop of his hat, it's unlikely that he's appreciating it (as much as guys can). But making him earn it might help.
B) Does he go down on you? If more girls had their guys give them oral, and not just give it, the double standard might go down quite a bit. While your trying to improve your technique on him, try getting him to work on pleasing you. Don't let sexual pleasure be one-sided. I'm sure sex isn't something your doing right now, but if your making sure he's orally pleasing you, your bringing down the slut factor in some ways. And it means you get pleased as well as him. And don't just settle for him trying, make sure he finds some tips to actually please you, not just make the motions.
That may seem silly, but I think it's important for guys to give oral as well as getting it, to help them appreciate what they're getting, and improve their overall sex technique.

Or you could just do it less often, but that probably wouldn't help all that much.

Anyway. I'll try to get back on later and throw some tips your way.

Good luck!
~Sin