How much porn is to much?

[Jessi31286]

me and my boyfriend have been going out for 2 years and because of his work we oly get to see eatchother once or twice a week and we have a good sex life i try to please him i want him to be happy recently i was on his computer and i was looking at the history to bring up a web sight i was looking at earlyer and i looked at the 7 day time period and there was allot of porn and i decided to count them and there was 211 porn videos for a weeks time i did not say any thing to him yet i have no problem with him watching porn we watch it together some times but this amount make me fell like im not enough for him i dont know what to do please help!

[Xero]

For a man viewing porn it's completely normal. Its fine as long as it doesn't affect the relationship or a normal life. When it becomes addictive it will make him neglect things. If hes not neglecting work or you then there should really be no problem with what he is viewing.

You could bring it up with him, just make sure before you say anything you must say to him that it doesn't bother you.

hopefully this helps.

[tristania]

Hm, I think you shouldn't worry too much. Most guys watch porn. And some girls do as well. ;p In addition: when it's only in his history... maybe he just checked some out, but some weren't completely his thing, and checked more out, untill he found something he liked. That's maybe an explanation for the number.

ps: Nice that you sometimes watch together. ^^

[scarbowl]

I agree with the other commentators. Most men, I think, look at porn on the internet. I've even found it in my Dad's browser history and he's 78.

You might stay alert to any effects this has on how he treats you and what he expects from you physically - pornography generally does not have respectful treatment of women. I object to the common use of a choke hold on women or holding their hair when in the rear entry (doggie style) position or holding their face during oral sex. And I really can't understand the appeal of facials.

Anyway, if he continues to treat you well and healthily in your relationship I wouldn't worry about it. He's probably masturbating to it and would do so even if you've just had sex.