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Old 07-22-2009, 10:15 PM
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Default Can porn help our sex life?

My husband & I started loosing interest in having sex. Otherwise, we have a very loving & healthy relationship. We talk about sex, just don't actually do it.

Can porn help stimulate us? Or is gaining an addiction too much of a risk?
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Old 07-22-2009, 10:24 PM
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I don't think porn is the answer but it is an option.

I would go back to being intimate before sex and then work your way into sex. So lots of foreplay would be my answer. You could also try new positions or new things if you are both willing to do that. That could also put sex back into your life.

Porn would be my last option, sex shouldn't rely on porn.
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Old 07-22-2009, 11:45 PM
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I have to agree with Xero here, porn should be a last resort.

If sex is your only problem, go back to basics.

Plan a "first date" and discover each other all over again. Read books about how to get interested in sex again, there's bound to be tips out there. There's things like roleplaying that might help you.
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Old 07-23-2009, 01:55 AM
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I suggest going with one of those educational sex videos. They're not the same thing as porn. Educational sex guides couples along the way during sex and they're based on research by people who have extensive knowledge on the subject. The Kama Sutra can also be an alternative.
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Old 07-24-2009, 08:04 AM
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Default Porn can help your husband

get "sexual dominance" and can help you both with 'sexual creativity".
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