G-Spot Orgasm mystifies

My girlfriend and i make love regularly but she has a hard time having an orgasm without clitoral stimulation. I always perform oral sex for her before we become more intimate but I am always afraid that I am just leaving her unsatisfied. Any tips on how i can talk her into letting me pleasure her some more, I just hate the idea of love making only lasting so long.

[Dan And Jennifer]

Wow, it's so cool - and refreshing - to see a guy actually care so much about his woman truly enjoying the experience. It's amazing how many women have NEVER had an orgasm!

That said, this sounds like a job for professional female orgasm tips and tactics. Check out our favorite book on the topic, written by our friend and featured author Lee Jenkins. It's one of the most impressive resources on the topic we've seen to date - definitely worth a read.

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[Lee]

Originally Posted by Worried

My girlfriend and i make love regularly but she has a hard time having an orgasm without clitoral stimulation. I always perform oral sex for her before we become more intimate but I am always afraid that I am just leaving her unsatisfied. Any tips on how i can talk her into letting me pleasure her some more, I just hate the idea of love making only lasting so long.

Actually, most women cannot have an orgasm without clitoral stimulation! So there's nothing out of the ordinary there.

Even with penetrative sex, clitoral stimulation will bring her to orgasm faster.

Oral sex before penetrative sex is something I recommend, because it 'primes' her to be more sensitive to gspot stimulation.

Why are you afraid of leaving her unsatisfied?

I don't quite understand what you mean by "Any tips on how i can talk her into letting me pleasure her some more". is she stopping you in anyway?

In any case, what works for me to make the entire love making session last longer is simply to take the lead and take control. Not in an aggressive way, but almost as if you're leading her while dancing, and she's following you. Don't ask for permission to do something..just do it and go with the flow. If you feel uncomfortable with this, you can tell her what you're going to do (without asking) and lead the lovemaking session.

Of course, you must pay attention to her verbal and especially non-verbal communication while doing this.

Variation is another thing to consider to make lovemaking last longer. If you only have a few tricks up your sleeve, then you're going to run out sooner than later. But if you have a tool box full of techniques...well, different story