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Old 07-29-2009, 09:32 AM
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Question How can I become a SQUIRTER?

I'm a mid 30's female that has never been able to squirt...I don't ever have any fluid show after a great sex session...I can orgasm, but not in the squirting way...
I want to badly...Please help....
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Old 07-29-2009, 02:56 PM
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You can get a squirting orgasm from A C or G spot stimulation.

I believe G is the easiest one to get it from though. This is from what I understand I don't really know if that's true though.

To find the G spot look at the diagram below. It is on the inside of the vagina on the belly button side. It is a rough patch inside the vagina. Just rub it gently with the motion if you where signaling someone to come here. It does not need to be rough at all. I would suggest finding it your self and stimulating to see it's affects on you. Just be careful not to hurt your self.

When you come near orgasm you will feel like you have to pee. This is really just the female orgasm's ejaculate. Just keep going until you have to then just squirt it out you will have a huge orgasm.

Someone can also do this for you with the penis it just has to hit it a certain way. From what I have heard putting your legs on the guys shoulders and him having sex with you he will hit it each time. (this is from what I heard I'm not sure if its true). The guy could also stimulate it then have sex. When its stimulated it swells a bit. Then when you reach the orgasm you will squirt contracting the vaginal walls pushing anything in there out.

From what the expert on here states that it is possible for every woman to do it.

If you have any further questions just ask. The videos below are provided on how to reach each kind.


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Old 07-31-2009, 12:53 PM
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Default not all women can squirt

Squirting is almost as exaggerated as g-spots. Reality is not all women can...if so, wouldn't you expect every porn video to show that and not face shots?

Actual, real medical research is very doubtful that all women can squirt...and in reality likely just a few.

Questions like yours are great but they reflect the needless tension of women (and guys) to think something is wrong with them if they can;t squirt or find a g-spot. All pushed by the porn industry to sell toys, etc.
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Old 08-02-2009, 08:26 PM
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Default All women can squirt

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Squirting is almost as exaggerated as g-spots. Reality is not all women can...if so, wouldn't you expect every porn video to show that and not face shots?

Actual, real medical research is very doubtful that all women can squirt...and in reality likely just a few.

Questions like yours are great but they reflect the needless tension of women (and guys) to think something is wrong with them if they can;t squirt or find a g-spot. All pushed by the porn industry to sell toys, etc.
Very few men know how to do it. Especially guys in lab coats who lack the sexual dominance to really turn women on. That's why women find it hard to squirt in clinical settings.
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Old 09-29-2009, 12:43 AM
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Default *sigh* sex myths gesh

"very few men know how to do it" What a comment. Exactly what I said about making it like some performance issue when it absolutely isn't.

As far as assuming all academic studies are in a clinical setting, that's bogus. Believe me, medical researchers get that and some studies don;t rely on clinical trials alone. Though sex research, admittedly, is less developed than other meical fields, I think it has a LOT more credibility than a few women able to squirt presuming ALL women can squirt. Totally unfounded and to tell women that is abusive.

To the original poster. Don;t be upset you can;t squirt. Very women really can. Obsessing over this is not conducive to a great sex life.
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Old 09-29-2009, 01:40 AM
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Default Here's a video of real women squirting

Every woman has the ability to squirt.

Decades ago, the female orgasm was a myth. Well, according to the experts anyway. Now the experts are saying female ejaculation is a myth.

You have to be a special kind of jerk to reject evidence, especially evidence like this:

G spot orgasm videos | Female ejaculation | Squirting
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Old 09-29-2009, 02:07 AM
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I have seen a girl squirt, at will.
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Old 09-29-2009, 02:07 AM
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So we all have our own ways to say things..and our own opinions and sites..ok guys play nice.Female name calling isnt the way to get your point across.
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Old 09-29-2009, 11:27 AM
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Default gesh you dont get logic

Respectfully, you are just missing the logic here:

1. Just because you have seen a woman squirt does NOT mean ALL women can/do, THAT is the scientific issue. Amazing you brought up the orgasm point. There are no reputable peer-reviewed study that denied it. The reality is that there was virtually NO scientific sex research before 1950.

2. Sorry but I just can;t accept linking what are essentially sex sites as evidence equal to peer-reviewed scientific research. That;s like using Wikipedia for a term paper. At the moment, Check your local university library's databases and look for it.

3. Sometimes I hear the argument "all women have the same parts so all women can squirt" let me debunk that. Can everyone wiggle their ears? No. Why? Nerve endings vary and guess what? That is what has the most to do with g-spot stimulation. Even outside the g-spot to the clitoris, women have different sensitivity and guess why? nerve differences.

To the original poster : dont; let people like this poster try to convince you something is wrong with you or your partner. If you dont; want to check the scientific evidence, ask a few of your female friends. A few, I;ve seen one, etc DOES NOT mean EVERYONE or even a significant portion.

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Old 09-29-2009, 12:02 PM
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Default You're not seeing your own logic

You have no evidence either way. Therefore, you can't draw any conclusion.
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