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Old 08-11-2009, 02:50 AM
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Exclamation Cant orgasm triand I'm getting desperate

I'm 17 years old. I've been having sex for about 1year, all with the same guy. Short time but we've kept count for fun and we're close to 300 times.

I've never orgasmed, I see all the posts that say most women don't. We've tried all the positions we can do with out hurting me. (I'm 5'1 and he's 6'4 and well endowed).

(in case it helps: I have masturbated to no avail)

I used to be able to go for hours too (8 is my record). Now I'm pressed to even make one with out sever retribution in the a.m. It hurts. Some days it feels like I got screwed by a tree branch.

I have relaxed and I am very much in love with him, but this is putting both of us over the edge. I don't know what I'll do if I don't get help here.

Please Help Me! !!! I'm at the end of my rope. Thank you for reading. Any thoughts would be nice.
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Old 08-11-2009, 10:14 AM
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Ok, so you have masturbated but cannot reach orgasm?

I'm going to give you a link to the A, C, and G spots that are on the female and you can try stimulating all of those. Hopefully this will get you to orgasm. I find the C and A to be pretty obvious.

The G spot is on the inside of the vagina, its located on the belly button side. It's going to be a rough patch of skin that you are going to want to rub. You can do that by using the come here motion with your fingers. Hopefully this one works for you, I would also recommend rubbing your C spot at the same time to see if that helps you orgasm.

You could also try playing with your nipples, and you can have your boyfriend do some of this for you as well, so you can try all of this to see if it works for you.

Some women orgasm by being kissed, making out, or being kissed on the neck. Everyone is different, if you need any details on how to find these spots just ask. If things get too hard to do try using some lube if that is an option for you. Make sure it's water biased so it does not eat the condom.

My question to you is Did you ever orgasm before?

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Old 08-11-2009, 11:24 PM
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Thanks for the help.

Hopefully it works or helps

And No I have never before.

thanks
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Old 08-12-2009, 06:02 AM
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Here's a video for you:
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