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Old 08-11-2009, 11:43 AM
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Ok, so my boyfriend and I tried something we've never done before. Anal Sex. We used "some" lube, but apparently not enough. Because I started bleeding from back there afterwards. It eventually stopped, but not until a few hours later. I wasnt heavily bleeding, but enough. Is that normal? Or should I consult a doctor because of it? We know now to be more careful, use lots of lube, and go slower. Other than that.. it was fantastic. Many people think that it's dangerous, but I disagree. If you are careful, it can be a wonderful experience for both
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Old 08-11-2009, 12:16 PM
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I think you may want to see a doctor about it. Bleeding from back there isn't a good thing at all because it can get infected easily.

I suggest next time you use lots of lube and take it very slowly. Maybe starting off with a few fingers then introducing the penis. Then when the penis is in there take it slow as well until you are fully ready.
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Old 08-11-2009, 09:57 PM
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Dear Brooke19, what a great girlfriend you are. Dan and Jennifer have several videos on anal sex. I suggest you watch them. They have some great advice.
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Old 08-12-2009, 05:05 AM
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Get your boyfriend to give you a squirting G spot orgasm: G spot orgasm | Female ejaculation | Squirting

And then you'll be able to have anal orgasms as well.
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