How do I get my wife over her ticklishness?

[sexjourneycouple]

Hi

I took Dan and Jenns quiz and got 41 out of 48, Having been through a number of sexual issues early on in our relationship (it took us months to consumate our marriage) I am very familiar with the common tips and techniques out their and have gone through the setting the scene massage scenario. The trouble is that my wife wont let me massage places like her thighs or stomach. Well actually she starts squirming like a fish out of water if i touch these in the slightest way, the same when I managed to get to touching her clitorous. Any time I touch her G-spot she suddenly says "I have to pee".
Aside from a relaxing bath followed by a massage with music and candlelight how do I get her to relax enough to enjoy my touching and to orgasm. In all the nearly 4 years I have been married I have given her an orgasm maybe twice or perhaps three times I'm just not satisfied with this and neither is she.
I believe sex is a journey (hence my user name) and that we will continually grow but i really need some more advice to get my wife to immerse herself in the experience of me touching her and going down on her.

[Xero]

For the massaging I don't really have much help for that.

For the G spot issue, is it an instant touch and pee? It shouldn't be it should take awhile. But when it is massaged and then when she is about to orgasm she will feel like she has to pee. What you need to do is tell her just to pee, its the female orgasm's ejaculatory fluid. When she pees it out she will have a huge orgasm you just have to tell her its not urn, and to have her squirt it out.