Can men get disgusted by anal sex?

[Frenchie]

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year now, and are in a very healthy relationship. We have sex regularly, and it is rarely planned. In the last two months, we have been very into anal sex. I enjoy it very much, and so does he. However, I sometimes notice fecal matter residues on his privates afterwards. I always clean him up after sex, anal or not, just by pleasure and care. I'm wondering if secretely he is grossed out by this. My personal hygiene is very high. I have heard of something called enema, but since we do not plan sex, I would feel awkward to stop in the heat of the moment to go for a rectum cleansing -s'cuse my language. So my question is: do you think this will gross him out to the point of not wanting anal sex anymore? Do you think he is grossed out by me? Help!

[slittylicker]

Well, it's probably more pleasant when you do clean out.
It kind-of ruins the mood when when sex gets shitty.

I know a girl who always does an enema if she is going to have anal. You could get one of those portable enema bulbs they sell for gays and stick it in your purse. Then, you could slip into the bathroom if it looks like things are going to happen.

[Xero]

I think you should ask him, and just tell him how you feel about it.

Sex is about communication as well, you should be very open with things like this.

He could well be turned off by it, but if hes still going after it then he must still enjoy it.

I suggest you two sit down some where quiet and both discuss all your feelings and concerns about it. I guarantee you won't regret it, just remember to leave no stone unturned in this conversation.

[YourEternalRest]

If you've been doing it for two months and neither of you are complaining, I don't think you should worry about it. If he said anything to you about anal sex that may sound like a problem, then I could understand why you'd be worried about it. But if all is good, then continue doing what you're doing and enjoy it.

[Frenchie]

Thanks for the but if I do use an enama, how early before the actual act do I need to use it?