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Old 09-24-2009, 01:47 PM
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Question Does giving her oral sex safe after I lick her asshole?

Hi,my gf enjoy it when i gives her oral sex and then i give her asshole a few licks. Isit safe to go back up there and continue giving her oral sex? Is there a safety diff by just licking her asshole and licking inside her asshole?
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Old 09-24-2009, 02:13 PM
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There is a possibility of transferring fecal bacteria to the vagina, and creating a rather nasty infection. Obviously, the risk with contact outside the anus is much less than with contact inside the anus, but it is still greater than zero. I don't think there's a way to put a number of the degree of risk, since there are so many factors involved that would vary by the individual. This would include recency of last bowel movement and general hygeine. The risk would be very close to zero if the area was washed with soap before the activity and there was no penetration of the anus.
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You pleasing her is fine and i give you an A+++ for an open mind but there are lots of bacteria back there and if you go from the anus back to the vaginia you can give her infections. So, dont do it for her sake.
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Old 09-24-2009, 07:15 PM
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I wouldn't go from back to front.

Maybe starting off in the front and ending in back would be completely fine.

You could also use another option of working the front with your mouth and using your hands/fingers for the back. Just remember to be gentle and not rough.
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Old 09-25-2009, 12:34 AM
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I would say, as long as she is clean as Beagle said, it would be ok.
I've done it many times and never had a problem.
Though, I wouldn't do it if I didn't know she was clean.
If she wasn't clean, you wouldn't want to lick her asshole anyway...or would you...

I myself get turned on by doing it as much or more than they like having it done. Have fun and don't be too worried.
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Old 09-25-2009, 03:50 PM
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If she wasn't clean, you wouldn't want to lick her asshole anyway...or would you...
Such a dirty mind, lol.

Since slittylicker has experience in this then I would follow his recommendation. Just remember things can happen, its life.
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Gesh no. No way, no how safe per other posts. Per Clerks II, you never go "ass to mouth" and ditto on the clit or vagina.
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Exclamation Absolutely - Never go Back to Front!

Definitely don't go front to back... it can cause various infections, etc.

Usually we see this with anal sex, where the guy will insert his penis or the toy in the anus and then in her vagina. Don't do it!

The danger here is bacteria in feces, so really licking around the anus can still have some of the problems of going "in".

So on licking... ideally you really should avoid licking the anus, although the mouth is somewhat resilient (saliva is first part of our digestive system) it's really not a good idea because of the aforementioned bacteria - plus you're probably not going to go was your mouth out with soap. :-)

Quick way to remember this: if it goes in the butt, you wash it out with disinfectant soap (or better yet, throw away the condom and was your hands with disinfectant soap - for these same reasons we always recommend a condom for anal penetration).
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