Giving head

[Cristina in Vancouver]

I have been with my current boyfriend for over a year - he has had a lot of experience and knows exactly what he wants when it comes to sex and getting a blow job (I have only been with two guys)...He doesn't like how I give a blow job. I keep asking him to tell me what he likes, but he says he shouldn't have to tell me and that it would ruin the experience to give me a 'play by play'...So I'm supposed to guess? He's a very quiet guy when we are intimate so I don't know what to look for that would let me know he is enjoying what I'm doing.

The problem I've had is that he has quite a large penis and I have a relatively small mouth...I'm not able to easily deep throat him (but I keep trying)...Also, when he gets hard and I take him in my mouth it seems like I can't avoid scraping my teeth against his shaft...I have tried covering my teeth with my lips, BUT as my lips become engorged (because it turns me on to give blowjobs) I find it really hard to maintain that...HELP!!!

[stpauli]

C.

Sounds like your BF has a but of an attitude. First, dont; let him make you feel inferior because you supposedly dont know what you are doing and he won;t communicate. That is his problem.

Second, Dan and Jen have a GREAT series on blowjob tips on this website you should check out that will really help. One of the biggest mistakes women make is presuming guys like how women do blowjobs in porn. Hardly. It's more varied than that. One strategy if the penis has too much girth is use your hand for stroking and concentrate mouth action (but NOT exclusively) on teh head, especially just under the urinal opening. see teh tips for more details.

[Xero]

I could have sworn i looked this up yesterday for you.

But here are my likes that are from this website that will answer your question.
Read up on them I'm not going to type it all out becasue it would be a lot.

How to Give a Blowjob: A Crash Course On Giving Men Great Head

How to Give a Blowjob: 3 Steps that You can Follow to Give Him an Earth Shattering Orgasm Using Your Mouth & Hands!

3 Mistakes Women Make in Porn Blowjob Videos

Good Luck if you have any questions on these tips just ask ill be more than willing to answer your questions.

[FemaleOrgasm]

Suck his corona (the rim of the head of his penis) continuously. Don't waste much time with teasing the other parts of the penis because most guys don't want oral sex like women do. They want you to get straight to the hot spots.

Squeeze (squeeze-release-squeeze-release) the base of his penis to stimulate his orgasmic contractions.

If he's open to it, massage his perineum (area between scrotum and anus) to stimulate his orgasmic contractions.

Tell him not to ejaculate for 24 hours so his penis becomes super sensitive.

[kinggibbon]

All men are different when it comes to sexual pleasure. To find out what a guy prefers it is best he tells you or just stfu with his complaining. It's not your fault you don't know but more of his that he isn't willing to help you. If i'm honest i'm not very vocal with my gf when it comes to telling her what i like. But in the end i took a bit of control and got great results. Tell him either he tells you or he can put up with what you give