Is masturbating with other people wrong?

[slittylicker]

It isn't uncommon for heterosexual men to have occasional encounters with other men. It just isn't admitted or talked about very often.

It's common for adolescents, who experiment when they discover the hard-on, then they grow up. It's not common for straight adults.
When I had an adolescent experience, deep down I didn't want to participate, but I was dealing with peer-pressure. I had no interest or desire to join in.
I never did it again. All we did was jerk off in front of each other.

[Xero]

Originally Posted by scarbowl

According to Kinsey, approximately 37% of males had at least one same-sex experience leaving to orgasm during their lives.

It's during their lives so it does fit the static.

[scarbowl]

Originally Posted by Paul - Personal Changes

First of all, the percentage of adult gays are around 10% of the male population. That percentage holds true for almost all mammal populations. For the last 30 years, the Fundamentalists have been putting out that the gays represent only about 2% of the adult population, but that's simply not true. Stick with science.

Okay, I'm going to agree with your advice to the original poster. But I have to disagree with your statistic.

The "homosexual community" (as represented by particular organizations) likes to cite the statistic that 10% of the population is gay. But that's like asking asking vegetarians how many vegans are out there. They will over-estimate.

But I don't think scientifically conducted studies validate that.

If you google for this data and look for the actual studies you'll find numbers to be generally much less than that.

[scarbowl]

These are admittedly from Wikipedia but they do cite references:
Denmark
1992: A random survey found that 2.7% of the 1,373 men who responded to their questionnaire had homosexual experience (intercourse).[9]2003:
Canada
A survey of 135,000 Canadians found that 1.0% of the respondents identified themselves as homosexual and 0.7% identified themselves as bisexual. Norway
1988: In a random survey of 6,300 Norwegians, 3.5% of the men and 3% of the women reported that they had a homosexual experience sometime in their life.[11]2006:
Australia
A study found 2-3% Australians identified as homosexual while 20% of Australians reported having same-sex attractions.[5]
United Kingdom
1992: A study of 8,337 British men found that 6.1% have had a "homosexual experience" and 3.6% had "1+ homosexual partner ever."[13]

[slittylicker]

homosexual experience

Not a Bisexual experience or a heterosexual having some normal fun on the side.

Also, referring to the original question...it's not wrong or right. It depends on who you ask.
Is it homosexual? In my opinion...yes.

Do most "normal" straight men do this or would they...NO.
Maybe if they were locked in jail for 20 years, but that's considered normal in the eyes of psychology experts.
Most "normal" heterosexual men go to adult places for heterosexual entertainment; Not to have sexual contact with men.
There are men who do this but there are also men who drink straight whiskey every day, shoot heroin, murder people, dress as women, pierce the head of their penis, have sex with minors, etc.
These are not the "norm" for the majority of us.

[Tazwell]

When I was in college a friend of mine and I did jack each other off on several occassions.He was really well endowed and I have to admit that it did turn me on to stroke his really big rod and he really exploded some massive loads, and it made me really hard when he would stroke my average size cock of , but we always talked about different girls that we wanted to have sex with while we masterbated each other. After college we both got married and have families and have stayed married for over thirty years, so I think it was just a little adolensence learning.

[Chris in oklahoma]

I am a big chicken when it comes to masterbating, even when it's just finshing up what should have been taken care by David, I still have to wait until he closes the door and the air kicks on so he doesn't hear me. Let me introduce you to the broner! It's a completly hetro boner a guy gets about another guy. It doesn't mean he is going to do anything with it but it's still getting aroused by a dude. They aren't gay. I hate that words freaks! Thats like saying gay people are freaks!

And since we are airing out the skeletons, I am bi and i've never had sex with a woman. I've made out but never had sex. I think about women all the time i'm just too chicken and busy to do anything! Hey life coach, does this mean i'm gay?

Also, to slittylicker.....we meet again...be nice!