He Can't Get Hard, He says there is a connection between us which fixed that problem, but it's back?

[Loveable]

Hello,
Recently I've been seeing this guy and we've become intimately close. I'm 22 years old and was a virgin before I met him and felt comfortable enough giving myself to him. We've been intimate for about a month now. However, at the start of our intimacy he had occasional issues of getting and maintaining an erection. We spoke a few days ago about that and he said that was the result of him not sensing any connection with me (I know that we might have had sex a little too early in our relationship). However, he said, that as he got to know me better that has helped fix his problem. The problem is, last night we tried to make love again and he couldn't get an erection. What does this mean? I'm afraid it might mean that he no longer senses that connection that he said helped cure his problem initially.
Thanks in advance,
Loveable

[slittylicker]

I don't know about him, but for me, and I imagine for most men, we don't really need "a connection" to get hard. That's usually what women require, but men are simpler than that. LOL.
We are turned on visually, tactiley, or our by our thinking, etc.
If a woman is sexually attractive, it usually doesn't matter if we even know her.

It could be caused by many things, but I doubt that it's lack of a connection.
Maybe he doesn't know why either.

Sometimes it's medical or psychological.
It could be many reasons.
if you fit into his concept of what turns him on physically, then i doubt that he wouldn't be able to have an erection because you aren't the ideal partner for a successful relationship.

[rottingteddybears]

Your problem sounds a little strange but it may not be his fault, if I were you, I'd take him to a doctor and get him checked up, also try having sex 3 or 4 times a week (or less, just not every night - to build temptation and arousal). Also try talking about it with him and find out what really he really likes (no matter how weird it may be) just tell him to trust you and you should be fine.

If worse comes to worse, there is always Viagra but definitely check with the doctor first.

[scarbowl]

You might ask him (gently) if he had this experience with anyone else.

As the previous respondent said, men get an erection just seeing a naked woman - they don't have to feel "connected." Your partner is just embarrassed and wants to present an explanation for something he doesn't understand and cannot control.

You should assume this isn't going to be "fixed" and make a decision about the relationship accordingly.