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Old 11-03-2009, 06:53 PM
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Me and my girlfriend have an amazing sex life and she says she gets a lot of orgasms, but she has told me that she only gets them when she is on top (no surprise that this is the favoured postion). This isn't just with me though, she said she has never had an orgasm any other way and can't even masturbate to orgasm either. Is this just the way her body is made, or have you got any suggestions that might work? I would just like her to have as good a time when we are trying out other postions etc as she does when she is on top.
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Old 11-03-2009, 07:42 PM
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I think what she is doing while on top is hitting her G spot. This is where she is getting a lot of pleasure probably.

You can angle your self to hit it some times.

I would suggest on next time doing normal missionary position and putting her legs on your shoulders while having sex. That usually helps you hit the G spot. Just ask her to try it, and make sure shes OK while having sex and that she is not uncomfortable.

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Old 11-03-2009, 08:46 PM
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You might want to just be thankful that she can orgasm through intercourse. This isn't particularly common as most women require direct clitoral stimulation through manual manipulation or oral in order to orgasm. Perhaps her being on top will get "old" after a while but you can use other positions and revert to her on top when she is ready to orgasm.
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Old 11-13-2009, 01:10 AM
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Tell her to thrust into you and squeeze her buttocks because this triggers orgasms. This is what happens when women are on top.

Also train her vagina, by giving her an A spot orgasm with your fingers and then give her one with your penis.

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