konichiwa! - My girlfriend doesn't want as much sex as I do

[Needmoresex]

hi Dan and Jennifer,
iam from japan, my problem is my girl friend don't like sex !and i need sex every night.how to make my girl friend need sex ?
yoroshiku onegaishimasu

[jeff92872]

There is no way to make Your girl friend like sex as much as you. I hate to say it but it dont work that way with women. Some nen get lucky and find women who cant live with out sex. The only thing I can say is try a lot of romance and talk to her about let her know how you feel about sex. Take her out to a nice dinner or something and just talk to her. But just so you know the avarage women only has sex three nights a week. Hope ive been some help.

[Saishuu]

You can make your girlfriend like sex, yes it is possible to "make" people like things.

There could be multitudinous reasons for her not wanting sex, not liking sex, or not wanting as much as you.

One thing you want to find out is what she like & dislikes. Do the things she likes & avoid the things she dislikes.

You mention she doesn't want it everynight, some girls (even some guys) when they hit the bed they automatically want to go to sleep.

If this is the problem then don't let her get into bed until you have had sex!

Before she goes to bed is she watching tv? on the computer? reading a book? if she is doing something like this then it doesn't matter. Just go up to her & do things she likes (like hug & kiss her) & work onto other things she might like (like licking her all over), by the time you have done plenty of foreplay she should be yours for doing anything you want, & if she isn't keep doing things she wants, its sex isn't it?.

If you come home when she is sleeping (say after working late?) and she is already in bed say to her you want to make more time when you can be with her (for doing mundane things like watching t.v. etc).

She is with you for a reason buddy, she loves you, just do things & don't give her a chance to say no, you need no reason nor excuse to go over & hug her or kiss her, just be enthusiastic and do your best to make sure she enjoys everything that you do. Let her continue whatever she is doing but make it so she can't concentrate.

make her want sex, make her feel loved, thats the way to go.

jeff92872 is right in that women don't want penetration as much as men,
unless they are that rare breed of woman that orgasms from penetrative sex.

[Lee]

This will require some effort on your part, but it's doable

First, you need to stop conveying your neediness. It sounds like you're the one who needs it, and she's the provider. This can put her in a position where she's having sex because of obligation or because YOU want it (not because she wants it).

Second, the next time you do have sex, make sure that you give her an amazing experience. Focus on her pleasure first. In other words, she should be the one having a better sexual experience than you!

Lastly...after giving her a few amazing sexual experiences with you, stop. Meaning, don't initiate sex. Let her do it! You may need to do some flirting etc. to get the ball rolling, but the idea is you become the provider of (great) sex, and she comes to you.

The reason why you want to do this is to make her 'want' something. And in general, people want things that make them feel great.

Good luck

[Needmoresex]

ども。。ok i understand already thank for the advice guys thank you ! i will be nice guy now dont just think sex, think about enjoy life .....ありがとう　ございました。