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Old 07-25-2008, 11:53 AM
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my penis is 9 and a half inches long and about 2 inches thick and my partner tells me it hurts when i attempt to put more than half of it in and also its too big for normal sex. Would all women say so if this size?
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Old 07-25-2008, 12:46 PM
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OK, I was going to bite my tongue.. but then I thought, what the hell?

Don't let this go to your head (the one of your shoulders buddy ) Your size is fine, but you're probably just not giving her a chance to get ready to take it in. You gotta get her worked up, get her wet, this is why women get wet, to lubricate things so sex works better. The vagina can also stretch and accept just about any size or shape of penis, provided it has time to do so. You have to be patient and willing to go slowly and make her feel good so you can feel good too. This is why foreplay is so important.. it gets her juices flowing and gets her in the position to enjoy sex.

OK, now I've said my piece.
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Old 07-25-2008, 04:09 PM
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K. in Cleveland is exactly right.

It sounds like your not getting your woman relaxed enough.

Vagina's on middle sized women are about 4 - 4 1/2 inches deep when not turned on, but all vagina's (is that the right plural?) can easily stretch to double that depth easily to accommodate any penis.

Just relax her more and take your time, of course this works both ways and she needs to relax herself, she can't expect you to do all the work.

Ending the impartial advice here, it sounds like shes just complaining for the sake of it, be wary of what she is saying, listen but take it with a grain of salt, lots of women deny sex to their partners for whatever reasons, don't be too suspicious but don't let her dictate your sex life either.
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Old 07-27-2008, 03:21 AM
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No you didnt get the point .. its like the penis size is so small(like that of a child) when not doing anything and sometimes its so big .. is that normal
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Old 07-27-2008, 07:16 AM
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No you didnt get the point .. its like the penis size is so small(like that of a child) when not doing anything and sometimes its so big .. is that normal
Some men when soft[flacid]are very small,but when erect becomes this monster size.some men who are huge hang like a trunk and when erect only get hard but do not grow in size.if this is what you are asking it is normal what you have.if it's her being able to accept it when it get big,try getting her very wet and insert it while your soft or semi erect and let it grow inside her.i actually love this myself.it's usually after round one where he is not fully erect,within time it grows to full erect size while in me[truely wonderful]..Hope this answers your questions.
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Old 07-27-2008, 10:55 AM
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No you didnt get the point .. its like the penis size is so small(like that of a child) when not doing anything and sometimes its so big .. is that normal
I think you're thinking of the thread you started.. this is a totally different one.
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