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Old 08-09-2008, 02:21 PM
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Default My first time, wasn't able to cum

I recently had sex with my girlfriend for my first time. It being my first time having sex, I wasn't sure of what to expect. I am uncircumcised and wore a condom. From what people told me in the past, guys usually don't last long their first time. This wasn't my situation, I couldn't cum. Is this normal? This may sound weird but a friend I know, his first time he couldn't cum either.. am I doing something wrong?
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Old 08-11-2008, 01:01 PM
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Default Don't worry about it yet

Don't sweat it, it happens sometimes. A lot of reasons can cause you to not ejaculate or orgasm during sex. Could be a lack of stimulation, depending upon the condom; plus you're probably used to knocking out some knuckle children without anything convering your penis. Most likely though, it was performance anxiety or nervousness. As you get more comfortable with having sex with your girlfriend, should resolve itself.
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Old 08-11-2008, 08:44 PM
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Thanks for the response. I agree with you and it most likely was nervousness of having sex for the first time. I kind of felt bad because the girl I was having sex with was moaning "cum for me" and I felt I couldn't satisfy her because of it.. hopefully next time will be a better experience. Once again though, thanks for replying.
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