3 sex questions - hand job, long lasting erection, and female orgasm problems

[oliviavern]

OK.

1) This might make me sound stupid, but should I get offended when my boyfriend pushes my hands away roughly during a handjob when he cums?

2) He's currently 25. And I'm wondering if it's natural to maintain an erection even after cumming.

3) No matter what he does, I can never orgasm. It's kind of annoying.

[Cocky]

1.) Maybe he doesn't want to get his super sperm all over your hand.
2.) I don't know. I've seen it happen.
3.) Depends on if what he's doing turns you on. Perhaps you worrying about if you should be offended about something is making you uncomfortable. It could be a lot of things.

[Lee]

Originally Posted by oliviavern

OK.

1) This might make me sound stupid, but should I get offended when my boyfriend pushes my hands away roughly during a handjob when he cums?

2) He's currently 25. And I'm wondering if it's natural to maintain an erection even after cumming.

3) No matter what he does, I can never orgasm. It's kind of annoying.

1) no, you shouldn't be offended at all. It's probably something he prefers (hands away when he climaxes from a handjob). He's also having a climax, and most people don't have the best physical control over their bodies' during an orgasm

2) Yup.

3) What has he done? Is it something that you enjoy? You'll need to know what's best for you, and let him know just how to do it.