Long distance relationship and my gf wants to get toys

[wsharp23]

My girlfriend and I live far apart and she thinks it would be cool to get the clone vaginas and dick vibrator. I was all for it at first so we could do it over the phone and stuff but the more i thought about it the more that I felt like she would like it better than me and wouldn't want to have sex anymore. I want her to be happy but I just like the feel of her needing me to be there to pleasure her. Should we go through with getting them?

[jeanintro*quitex]

Real penis >>>>>>>>> Plastic penis.

Even if the plastic one vibrates, moans, plays music, even has any vague forum of ejaculating some fluid, or whatever. Real penises >>>>>>>>>> Plastic penises.

Even having you on the phone it would be consider masturbation since she is... uh. alone. And we ALL know that masturbation is good, but real hot steamy sex is better

She won't replace you for her vibrator. She won't replace a human being with a piece of plastic. The human being not just does the job, but cares, loves and supports her. I think, that 9" plastic tube won't love, care or support her.

Chill out man. Enjoy having her on the phone. Enjoy masturbating while on the phone. Just make sure you have enough to pay the bill

-Jean.

[wsharp23]

Thanks a lot! u dont know how worried ive been. I guess I needed to hear that from someone

[scarbowl]

It sounds like a great idea to me! You can have wonderful phone sex with your new toys. It might add a bit of spice to things. I'm sorry you are feeling insecure about this. You might even find you like the artificial vagina - the Fleshlight is a great device in my opinion. And the occasional use of a vibrator when you are with her might even be fun. Go for it! Is my advice. Less risk than if she finds a substitute real one.

[billy g.]

yep, deffinitely a great idea. my gf has to go away for long periods of time for her work and so we have phone sex fairly often and i can always tell that it's much better for her if she's using one of her toys...and frankly, the thought of her using them on herself turns me on as well.

[kenny]

you are free to get what is suitable for yourself and make sure you make your partner okay. that is what forum is all about. thanks. kenny,

[kettlekorn]

Don't worry. Really. How can you be replaced by what is supposed to simulate what yours is? I can understand why you feel a little uneasy, my boyfriend was concerned about that too (we're thinking about doing the same thing when he is gone). I really don't think there will be an issue. If you're still concerned though, bring it up with your girlfriend so you can be assured. Make sure you are both comfortable with this decision

[jackcollins]

Its all right to use sex toys in distance relationship. You need not to worry about your love. Love can't be weaker by a plastic penis or vagina real are real.

[ooze]

Everyone here is right but also gotta think that atleast she is 100% interested in you willing to come up with this idea, this is a major + to show you that she really wants to be with you and not cheating..most long distance relatioship have these type of problem so consider you're self verry lucky man.

[hot_kev]

It nice to hear that your girlfriend had told you to buy sex toy to satisfy both your craving. You should be worried if she would look for a guy just to pleasure her.