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Old 06-07-2008, 12:45 AM
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Question Why is she using strange things as sex toys?

Hi dan and jennifer. My question is, i recently came home early from work one night to find my partner slipping rather unusual objects into herself.

Normally, we will use a play toy such as a dildo or vibrator while having foreplay, yet what i saw was very strange. Ive heard of bananas and cucumbers being used but she had a chair upside down and pleasuring herself with the chair leg. Is this something that is done by other woman?

also, is it normal that i should become aroused by seeing this activity?
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Old 06-09-2008, 12:02 PM
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Hey there.

To tell you the truth, I'd be pretty unnerved too if I came home to a scene like that. But you probably have nothing to worry about. Women use all sorts of things as sexual toys. I've never heard of someone using a chair leg, but I'm sure it's not unheard of. Perhaps she saw it in a movie/book or heard it from a friend. Or maybe she was just sitting there aroused, and wondered what it'd feel like. It's not uncommon for sexual experiences to come from pure curiousity. It's very likely that that's why she tried it.
Have you asked her why she did it?

Also, don't worry about being aroused by it. The male body will respond to just about any sexual stimuli, so it's no wonder that you were aroused by the sight even though you thought it was odd. And besides, just because somethings weird doesn't mean it isn't sexualy gratifying or fun.

Just talk to her, find out whats up, I'm sure you'll feel better afterward.

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Old 07-11-2008, 01:13 AM
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Yes, I have heard of things like this. Sometimes the person just likes to be adventerous and experiment...but sometimes it's just that she wants a BIG toy. Maybe if you were to get her a very large toy, then she would stop using weird replacements.
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Old 08-24-2008, 02:02 AM
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Haha! I've heard of this kinda of thing, furniture sex. It's a fetish for some, but it doesn't sound to me like your girl is too serious about screwing tables and chairs.

I think jamiemartin could be on to something when he mentioned the big toys.

Try to do what you can to help her satisfy her cravings with items that were designed for such acts, not ones that could give her nasty splinters in bad places.

Oh, and don't put too much thought into liking that. You got turned on by the fact that your wife was pleasuring herself, it had nothing to do with how she was doing it.
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Old 11-04-2008, 01:27 AM
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Its all right with your girl, womans use these weired things as toy. And if you aroused to see this its no big issue. Generally a guy aroused to see any sexual activity by a female.
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Old 11-04-2008, 02:08 AM
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Shes probly wanting to just experiencing new stuff in her life. just let it be but if she continues more and more towards objects then towards you, there might be a little problem there.
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I think she's just experimenting in her sexuality. I believe that some girls use almost everything that can be used as a toy. Don't be worried about that you feel aroused when you she her it's just natural.lol
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